i love two guys one named Brandon and one named Dave what do i do? they both want me to go out with them i love them both help?!!!
2006-09-22 06:42:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well right now i'm engaged to Dave but i love Brandon two i want to date one of them but i'm not sure which one!
2006-09-22 06:45:58 · update #1
they are fighting over me
2006-09-22 06:57:38 · update #2
Well if you are engaged you have already made your decision which one. Are you second guessing your engagement? If so you need to talk about that with him.
I say take some time, maybe a day by yourself to journal and think about both of them. Pros and cons of both guys. Who would you do better with on a permanent basis?
2006-09-22 06:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you are engaged if you are getting married then you should not even consider dating brandon. He should understand and if you are torn between the two why did you consider getting engaged in the first place. you need to sit down and write the pros and cons on both guys and go from there. you may be able to find what guy makes you happier.
2006-09-22 06:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by Tinkerbelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, be honest with yourself. If you are not "dating" either of them, then there is no reason you cannot go out with one on a Friday night, and the other on a Saturday night. Just to keep it honest, let each of them know you are not in a committed relationship yet and want to see other people. After a few dates, you will probably know which one you really "love" and want to date. Good Luck!
2006-09-22 06:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, you can't give all of yourself to two different men. It is an impossibility. So, what you need to do is choose, it is that simple. You are not being fair to either of these guys and if I were one of them and found out you had another guy to, I would dump you. We each deserve a partner who gives 100% to the relationship. When each give that 100% then the relationship will be healthy and solid. Do the right thing and choose which one you want to be with.
The girl who answered first is morally bankrupt. To give advice to hide a relationship is morally wrong and shows no integrity.
2006-09-22 06:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Serenity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I do believe its possible to love more than one person at a time, I think it is highly unlikely. It's hard for me to believe that you truly love both of these men. You have to be fair to both of them. Be honest and tell them each that you will go on a date (separately of course) and get to know them better before throwing around the L word!!!
2006-09-22 06:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by Trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look niether one of them are going to like you if the figure out what is going on. You shouldnt of had the oppertunity to fall in love with both of them but if one was right for you you would have been able to choose.
2006-09-22 06:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by LEAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your confused you need to think about what you want first, not take both and be greedy. which one are you happy with? and you can love one but not the other u may be inlove with other. make sure you love your self before you love someone else.
2006-09-22 06:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by LiL MaMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the both of them. They don't have to know about one another
2006-09-22 06:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's tough, usually I would go for the one who is more interested in me, but since they both are, I say go for the one who will treat you right. Choose the one who will respect you.
2006-09-22 06:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by CHERYL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess there's something deep down inside that tells you which one is better for you. Trust your gut.
2006-09-22 06:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by ghanajen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋