I am 40 single well established nice lookin great personality no baggage at all, and would love to go out with some in there 20's I do not see anything wrong with a man dating a younger women...but first thing people say(not that I care because I don't) is you are a pervert! I am not but who would not like to have some who is young and beautiful and full of life???
2006-09-22 06:31:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you want to do is not wrong or bad by any means. Even if you desire a younger woman solely for her sexual attractiveness. The reasons that people object to older men with younger women is cultural, and it is variable throughout life. My best friend's mother is 74, and her boyfriend (at the assisted care home where they live) is 95. Believe me, nobody points at this couple and 'accuses' him of dating younger women wrongly. Go to the other end of the spectrum, and you can see why there could be problems with a mere eight year difference: a 16 year old male dating an 8 year old girl, and so forth.
There is one more factor regarding why people get so upset: you are in competition with younger males, and they cannot compete with your income, stability, life experience, or wisdom. In Utah (USA), for example, where Mormons still have multiple wives – all usually quite a bit younger than themselves, there are legal provisions to allow young men to separate from their parents in order to better compete for women. As I recall, they are called the laws of emancipation.
Date or live with whoever you want, and allow everyone else to expel energy over being concerned. Or, wait until you're 90, and then nobody will say anything about you dating those "younger chicks."
2006-09-22 06:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all people call you a pervert...and none should. Isn't it you and your "date's" choice as to whom you go out with? Does age make that much difference to them, to you? I will say that you are probably limiting yourself by choosing to date only 20 somethings...but that is your business, no one elses.
2006-09-22 06:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe there comes a time when every "older" guy or girl for that matter wants to be with a younger partner! I don't think its perverted what so ever! its common to want that especially in this day in time..
2006-09-22 06:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by H0ttness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feels like the quickly song to being the subsequent 40 365 days old virgin... ok, im going to furnish you some super old-college advice: be an asshole. you sound way too advantageous, and thanks to in-touch with your female facet (actually no offense meant); i in user-friendly terms say that bc you used the be conscious "blossomed" while speaking approximately self-well worth, and a ton of ladies are putting you interior the pal zone bc they dont see you as a sexual being. fix it. youre a welder so im constructive your around manly men continuously; loaf around with them greater, enable them to rub off on you. in case you initiate up being greater of a jerk, you will immediately look greater masculine to women human beings. i understand that's debatable advice, yet hi, it cant harm to purpose soemthing distinctive! (in simple terms dont be a entire jackass....go watch the action picture in simple terms pals. heavily. its humorous, yet im constructive you will see some similarities. ought to help.) if all else fails, attempt finding an impressive quiet female as much as now... like a librarian. or take a stab at on line relationship. in simple terms dont enable off how green you're good off the bat; thats a extensive crimson flag to us ladies... stable luck
2016-10-15 07:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never go out with a guy taht is 20 years older tahn me.. oh an sorry i only read da firts sentence to your question
2006-09-22 06:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋