2006-09-22 06:28:54 · 21 answers · asked by su 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and how far is to far?
2006-09-22 06:35:45 · update #1
damn i think its a hard question really not liek other people said its dumb... well its NOT okay but u knwo its going to happen.. i think by making it okay u mite be inviting him to go further so make it not okay but think about will u NOT flirt either???
and remember "just because somebody flirts with you it doesnt mean they like you"
2006-09-22 06:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by _aztec_princess_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural for people to be attracted to other people besides their BF or GF. If you think that a man only looks at you after you have him that is not true. If he does not disrespect you or take it to another level, then what is the difference. You are the one he is going home with at night.
Unless you don't have high self esteem, you should not worry about him straying, unless of course he is a player.
2006-09-22 13:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well reality is, boys will be boys.....they are going to find someone other than you attractive. some guys act on that impulse and some dont. either way, as long as they respect you by not cheating ar flirting right in front of you, let them play.
me and my boyfriend used to paly a game. we used to go out together and see who could get the most numbers. crazy huh?
2006-09-22 13:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with flirting. You should become concerned ONLY IF it goes further. Being married, this is a saying my wife and I live by: "You can look at the menu, just don't order off of it."
...till next time.
2006-09-22 13:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by nomoretv4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind my bf flirting under two conditions: #1: don't do it in my presence. Cuz then it's very disrespectful towards me. #2: leave it to words only! No physical contact allowed. it's one thing to say things, but don't put your words into action. Cuz then it's too far. His hands are only suppose to be put on me.
2006-09-22 13:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been married for 12yrs here and since day 1 my husband has flirted and still does. It dont bother me though as it is the human instinct to try to get attention I also know that he will be coming home to me every night and we have trust in one another I think its alright:)
2006-09-22 13:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by spokany_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think innocent flirting is okay when it's not done around your boyfriend/girlfriend; that would be disrespectful. And as long as it doesn't lead to cheating.
2006-09-22 13:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not mind if my GF flirted with other guys as long as it did not go further then that. But if you tempt fate eventually it will bite you in the ***.
2006-09-22 13:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends nor girlfriends should be flirting with others.
2006-09-22 13:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itz okay to look but not to touch, or to speak to them, remember that is a two way street, because u could do the same. and if he has a problem with u doing that well than he should stop if he can handle it.
2006-09-22 13:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by LADY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋