Ihave a boyfriend,but theres two other guys that I like, they know i have a bf, but I was considering breaking up with him, hes almost bad for my health, but if i go with one, hes Godly, and comes from the same back ground, and the other is sweet and makes really good money( sometimes i think he uses that to try to get me - im not a golddigger) so i dont kno what to do, i like them, but im tryin to pick out whoevers best for me. help!!!!
2006-09-22 06:27:18 · 13 answers · asked by babiluv 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with them all and tell each of them seems how you are not married that you'd like to date all of them. Get their reaction. it doesn't mean you will or won't but it's a start and a way to see how each of them react.. If you can't or won't do that then weigh your odds with each, the pros and cons start by making a list for all of them.... Good luck Oh by the way if you know the one isn't good for your health then you can eliminate that one right?
2006-09-22 06:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money doesn't make u happy but lack of money doesn't make u happy either. Point is if Mr. Godly isn't too badly off financially then he's the right choice. But if Mr. Money is a Christian then he's Mr. Right. You know what... just send then both too me and stay with your man, ok?
2006-09-22 13:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by LaToya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not old enough or mature enough to be stuck with one 'boyfriend' just yet.
Try going out with each of them in turn. Stop trying to 'decide' which one is 'best' because when you really DO find the right man, you won't have to ASK anyone, you'll KNOW.
2006-09-22 13:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are not happy and contented with your bf, you keep looking on the other side of the fence. You might as well break up with him than keep cheating on him.
I hope you make a wiser and fair decision.
2006-09-22 13:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stop referring to these boys as your "boyfriend". That way you will be free to go on dates and "play the field" so to speak. You are not being fair to your current "boyfriend". You need to tell him you're not ready for a relationship.
2006-09-22 13:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date the godly one now but in a year dump him and go with the sweet money one...
godly guys and gals do NOT age gracefully...
the nice ones do...
2006-09-22 13:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by Andy FF1,2,CrTr,4,5,6,7,8,9,10 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the end u will end up UNDER A MAN......nice and and rich may not satisfy u then u will crave for that missing fun so find hard dick..........I am of some help.
2006-09-22 13:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to choose the best one for you
2006-09-22 13:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make your decision on who is there for you and will be there financially. and stop cheating on your man. if you don't want to be with him, then leave him..
2006-09-22 13:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick da nice guy
2006-09-22 13:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋