I'ved being talking to this guy from online he seems nice and he text me pictures of him and he asked me to come to his house but Im not sure. He just want someone to have sex with and nothing else. How should I tell him that, that's Im not interested just to have that kind of thingy.
2006-09-22 06:13:43 · 23 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him directly. Never go to the guy's house on the first date. Always meet the guy in a neutral public place.
2006-09-22 06:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not looking for a sexual relationship right now and you would prefer to meet at a restaurant or mall or any place public until you get to know him better. If he is offended, he wasnt right for you and you are not losing anything. He could be a rapist or worse. never meet someone alone until you can trust them.
2006-09-22 13:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by sea_sher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just make up that you had a boyfriend that wanted you just for sex and then tell him that you didn't want to because your not that way and you dint want to start a relationship that way, and if he didn't get the point then gust try to tell him in a nice way and if you find out that he just wanted you for that the forget him and find another guy, remember this: "there is more fish in the sea."
2006-09-22 13:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just told us.
"Im not interested just to have that kind of thingy."
2006-09-22 13:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by President25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about saying "I'd really like to just be friends for now, and we'll see how things go". Just tell him straight. Whatever you do, dont go to his house on your own. Meet with friends in a public place. If he's not happy to do that, dont go.
2006-09-22 13:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about offending him he offended you when he asked you that like you're some kind of hoe . Tell him you can get dick anywhere , and you're not even interested.
2006-09-22 13:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are looking for a relationship and not a booty call. Or tell him you are saving it for marraige and he will get turned off and leave you alone. DOnt be afraid of offending a guy who just wants booty.
2006-09-22 13:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never put yourself in a vulnerable situation--if you want to meet him in person do it in a coffee shop during the day--do not go to his house or in his car--drive separately and he should not go to your house either. you can tell him online you are not interested, but if you want to be friends, then start the friendship in public places--take a friend with you!
2006-09-22 13:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is easy - text him back and tell him that you are not that type of person. I would be offended if someone asked me that.
2006-09-22 13:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful of online relationships....don't go to his house ..you dont have any idea who he really is...people can pretend that they are nice and good online but in person may be totally different....be upfront with him...tell him you arent interested in that kind of relationship right now....protect yourself.....you have no idea what you might be in store for!!!
2006-09-22 13:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋