How do i get his attention?

Question

I have seen this really cute security guard when i take my brother to college. Everytime i see him i get the biggest smile on my face, and he always goes out his way to wave at me as i drive through the security entrance into the campus. How do i approach him? His never alone as there are always another security officer there. How do i get him to talk to me or vice vercer. I cant stop thiking about him and i see him twice a day when i take and collect my brother. Im a 22 yr old female and need your help. Im to shy to make a prat of myself and face0 rejection in front of others. He might have a girlfriend... Help

Haha.. thanks guys :) I cant park near the entrance as my brother is allocated at top of the hill in campus. Hi is the most we have got to say. I thought about emailing college but thats a no go as i dont know his name besides that wouldn;t know what to say.

AND TO JENINTN HE CANNOT WALK FAR HE WAS PARALISED IN HIS LEG HENCE HAVING TO DRIVE HIM ONTO CAMPUS.

Answer 1

be direct. men are shy, too. introduce yourself and open with something like, "hey, i see you all the time. my brother goes. . . . " do the same with the other security guard so that the one you want to get to know feels like he better make his move.

Answer 2

Put your thoughts about him on paper, and see if you can give it to him...tell him to read it later. You dont' want to bother someone while they are at work.

If you can, ask him real quick if he would be interested in getting a drink or something, after he is off work. If he says yes, ask for his # and ask when is a good time to call.

Men can be shy, and most would love it if the woman approached him. The worst that can happen, is he will respectfully decline. But you won't know if you don't try. He probably has rules in his job that prevent him from talking to people "socially" on campus, while he is at work.

Answer 3

Maybe you should park the car close to the entrance and walk through with your brother. It might give you a chance to speak to the security guard. Try and start up a conversation and ask him if he would like to get a cup of coffee or something.

Answer 4

Some people here are bored and give ridiculous answers.

I learned from modeling that your face appears fresh and beautiful when you pull your hair back into a pony tail. So, pull your hair back into a ponytail with or without swept bangs to the side. Put on some mascara to enhance your lashes, use glimmer lip shade gloss, wear a cute black top and tight dark denim jeans.... dark make you look taller and toned/thin.

Look into the mirror one more time before leaving which will help assure you that you are looking H O T and your confidence will soar. When you arrive get out of the car and go grab a college brochure that will be your excuse to strike up a conversation.

Good Luck

Answer 5

Hey it never hurts to just approach someone and say how are u doing. Since he speaks to u when u see him, it shouldn't be hard to get a conversation going. Just ask something simple, like do u like your job? Work your way in and just throw hints around about u wondering if he had a girlfriend or not. IF U DON'T ASK, YOU'LL NEVER KNOW! So just be brave and give it a try! good luck

Answer 6

Be direct. Tell him if he wants to go do something to give you a call. Then hand him your number. That's it. If he calls you go out. If not drop it. The older I get the more I think when you are young you should get to know as many people as possible so you can find the right one. Besides he's a person and appears to be attracted to you.

Answer 7

I'm just disturbed at the fact your brother has to "dropped off" and picked up at college every day. Is he special needs or something? I've just never heard of a college student being dropped off by someone.
ANYWAY; what about asking the sec. guard for directions to someplace? (whether you need them or not).
OR pretend you don't know jack about the town,and ask him what people do for fun....single people......that might get him thinking.......or flirting with you.

Answer 8

get out of the car and go "see" the campus. ask him to show you around.

Answer 9

Take a look at this:
How men select women
http://www.sidwiki.com/index.php?title=How_men_select_women

Answer 10

there is no helping you. what do u want someone on here to go talk to him for you. try handing him a note. "do u like me yes or no circle one" grow up. get some balls and go talk to him.