My ex and I started talkin again. He has kept our picture up since we broke up (I've seen it) and even got a tattoo I gave him after we broke up. I went over to his house to discuss that we should start dating, he said I am his first choice, but we need to start at zero, be friends. He wants to see if I can be patient (I don't have much) The picture was not there nemore. His mom and I still talk, talked to her the next day n she said it was there...he put it back up! I am being friends with him but If I was his first choice, wouldn't he make extra effort to hang out and be friends? Found out that he's askin this other girl on a date, dinner and movie. I guess I don't understand about the pic and he said that I was his 1st choice, but he doesn't make an extra effort to start over and be friends and hang out...ask me on a date and see where it goes...Am I wrong or am I just wantin things to go to fast? I just need insight from guys....
2006-09-22 06:00:37 · 6 answers · asked by ConfusedK 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on and find someone else.
2006-09-22 06:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember he said you are his first choice not his only choice there is a difference. He is dating right now. I am sure he had taken the pic down when the other female he was dating said she was coming over. I mean he wouldnt want her to still see your pic up and he is trying to get with her. Even his mom knew he took the pic down she is trying to save you some heart ache. A mother knows her son she might want him to tell you in his own way and not get involved in this matter. I know I am the mother of two boys ages 16,19 and I have had girls calling me asking me about my sons. They know that one thing I am honest and if I feel like my son is leading these girls on I tell them to move on and save them some heart ache and embarrassment.
2006-09-22 13:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to be friends, it's not like he is necessarily doing anything wrong with this other girl by dating her. Just don't get played. If he tries to move things forward w/ you, make real sure he's done with the other girl.
2006-09-22 13:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to your question...He is stringing you along. You deserve better and you know it. You still have feeling for him. Don't let them get in your way of seeing the truth. Let your mind do the working, not your heart...Good luck to you and I wish you the best...You know what to do... ;0)
2006-09-22 14:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by Marty J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i rekkon u wanting things to go fast give it a little time and then see what happens
2006-09-22 13:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by peter p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's keeping you around as a backup date.
2006-09-22 13:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋