Ok well its a sticky and messy story. First off the ex dumped me back in Oct last year and didnt talk again till new years when she told me she wanted me back and i turned her down after that we didnt talk untill March. In march we hooked back up while we were dating other people then broke up in May cuz we loved other people. Now shes pregnant with another guys kid and wont go away and leave me alone. I am with someone else that same someone I cheated on her with and yeah I gave my word I wouldnt go near the ex again but yesterday was the exs bday so I went to see hows shes doing. So she slipped and told me she still loves me but I dont feel the same and she also wants me to be god parent to her kid. What should I do?
2006-09-22 05:57:41 · 11 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got yourself into this mess; get you self out!
2006-09-22 06:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sprint Nextel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to tell her how you feel. You need to respect the girl you are with now and not see your ex. You can't be the god parent to her child because then you will have to be in her life for the rest of yours. You can't do that to yourself or the one you love. You need to tell her that you are flattered, but sorry because there is another woman in my life that I need to give my attention too. You have to come straight out with it and then if she does come back around, ignore her and not pay attention to her. That is the only way to get the message across.
2006-09-22 06:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 07:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get dragged back into the realtionship if you don't love her anymore. There's no point in trying to make something work when you don't feel the same way but you can still be her child's god parent.
2006-09-22 06:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, tell her that you are with someone now and you don't need her to keep coming around all the time, especially since she is pregnant with someones Else's kid.
2006-09-22 06:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it, you say you don't love her... so what's the deal why contact her? Whatever you get you deserve for feeding her need to still be a part of your life.
2006-09-22 06:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best wishes-
cut that cord... you need to just say NO and step away from the world that she is creating for you.
2006-09-22 06:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont like her then be honest with her, tell her tht u dont anymore have feelings for her n tht u like ur current gf.dont get confused set up ur priorties. good luck.
2006-09-22 06:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by naturelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get involved, it's never a good thing to play with peoples feelings. why would you want to kill her?
2006-09-22 06:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by mzvirgo19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her back.
2006-09-22 06:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋