how do I tell new girlfriends I like this or is it srictly a taboo subject.... P.S.. Im not gay
2006-09-22 05:53:34 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NEVER T.........Im not sick this is a serious question its where the male G-Spot is.... Im sure you like have your G-Spot tweaked from time to time....
2006-09-22 05:58:01 · update #1
If you actually get a woman who knows what she is doing you shouldnt have to say a word;-)
2006-09-22 07:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't for the life of me figure out why most men won't admit that they like it. Kudos to you. Don't mind the assinine comments about you being gay either. My man says it's the g-spot for him. LOL As for letting new girlfriends in on it... let them know up front what you like, make sure they're into the same thing, or atleast willing to try and go from there.
2006-09-22 06:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st be sure this girl is going to be around for a while cause you don't just wanna whip out the freaking stuff on anyone, they might go spilling it everywhere. Then maybe while you two are 69ing (if you do that) slip your tongue there and that should encourage her to do the same, if that works slip a finger there. she might do the same. If not just kind of guide her hand to that area, maybe she will get a hint. If she still doesn't then say you kind of like to experiment. its not taboo its actual kind of normal, more men like it and don't wanna say anything because they are scared to be considered gay....but its okay!
2006-09-22 06:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by tweedy778 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you start to go out with somebody, there is not a lot of trust...then the confidance comes. Sex is more open and free. Be sincere. when you think there is already enought confidance, you simply tell her. And if you are too shy to tell her, take her hand and put it where you want it. If she doesn't want, you will notice. In this case, do not push her. everyone likes different things and dislike different things....maybe your new girlfriend already did it a lot of times with somebody else or maybe she finds it really disgusting. Be honest but diplomatic
2006-09-22 05:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Monika H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she put her finger in there, she is obviously not objective to that idea and there is nothing wrong with that at all (its not taboo to someone with an open mind on sexuality
alot of straight men enjoy that sort of thing, while having their g/f perform oral on them.. or anything for that matter.. i have heard it intensifies the man's orgasm like you wouldnt believe..
so i say, tell her you like it and enjoy! (and FYI its the A-spot in the man's anus)
ps.. i have done it w/ my b/f and he said it felt a bit weird, but he could get into it.. its not abnormal and does NOT make you gay.. so i will say again.. Enjoy my friend!
2006-09-22 05:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by nicoles1504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not believe what a bunch of wierd people have answered this question. Their sex lives must be so dull. I guess its not the kind of thing you can immediately ask of your girl to do but after time you can ask her. Its not a taboo subject, loads of guys like it. Those that havent tried it are complete prudes, its their loss.
2006-09-22 06:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by nicksname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just see what areas are no goes for her...
I dont think this makes you Gay, but it is a lil unusual.. I wonder how many guys are gunna try it now despite trying to call you gay... lol..
Have fun, lifes to short.
2006-09-22 10:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God it never fails to amaze me how prudish some people are - they must have really dull sex!
I suggest you wait until you're mid 'a particularly horny' shag and see how she responds to a bit of mild dirty talk. If that goes down well, suggest she grabs your a*se and take it from there.
If she clams up, drop it.
Enjoy!
2006-09-22 09:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Kate W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your girlfriend she can handle the truth. Just tell her you enjoy some anal penetration during sex and you'd like her to try it with you.
Pay no attention to small minded people who think its disgusting or "sinful". There is nothing wrong with it, and many men and women enjoy this.
2006-09-22 05:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a freak and do your thing Boo :-) Stop frontin' guys know what type of girls are down for wahtever and the ones who have the I don't do list.
2006-09-22 06:02:51 · answer #10 · answered by getit on the floor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its genuine for u to try new things in foreplay. u just hav 2 honestly hold ur gfs hand and position as u like. once relation is deep u start understandin ur partner!!!! he / she doesnt even need 2 tell what they want. ur gf would or any other girl wil also explore ur body if u allow them.
2006-09-22 05:58:44 · answer #11 · answered by yuv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋