I had lived with my g/f for the past 4 months; I paid for everything when we were together while she saved every penny she made. She has a teen son to support. She wants sex at night & in the morning everyday which I also enjoy except after awhile I got sleepy while at work. So, I told her that I need to cut down sex during weekdays, so I can have more energy for work. She wasn't very happy about that. She is also extremely jealous and insecure and she says she loves me and tries everything to demand that I marry her right away. I want to make sure we are compatible besides sex, but she continues to say that if I don't marry her, I'm being irresponsible and even threatened me for not meeting her demand. Should I be rushed into marriage with her? Is it real love or just convenience for her?
2006-09-22 05:28:54 · 24 answers · asked by lg traveler 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is not love!! This woman is psycho and if I were you I would get rid of her ***!! If she is this bad now it will get a million times worse when you do marry her.
2006-09-22 05:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
True love not only waits is not demanding. If she was so worthy a lady she would not be so insecure and jelous about you. So therefore you shouldn't have to marry her if you don't feel ready! Marriage is a serious thing with someone you are not only sexually ocmpatible with someone that is there fore you at all times and really loves you. You need someone that understands you and when you say please less sex during the week for the sake of our pocket, she should understnad totally... Tell Her not to be so pushy, things come for those who wait!!! Good luck and have a great weekend
2006-09-22 12:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you marry someone like that you wold be making the biggest mistake in your life. When you marry someone you are looking for you other half, someone what would complement you, not demand from you this or that. I think she is just using you for the sex, the comfort and the money. I am not a guy, but if I was, I woul've kick her behind out of my house long time ago.
2006-09-22 12:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said it in the beginning... manipulative. If she loves you, she will wait until you are ready. You don't force someone to marry you, there's nothing right about that scenerio at all. Tell her if she wants a marriage, to give you time. Otherwise, she's out for the $.$ and security.
2006-09-22 12:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by ladonnaschild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you don't want to do. And especially don't let anyone force you to do anything you don't want to do. All women are manipulative and demanding to some extent, tell her you're not ready for marriage and if she doesn't like it she can hit the road. This is how you tell if it is convenience. If you tell her you're not ready for marriage and she should leave if she is going to pressure you and she doesn't actaully leave it is because she is getting free rent sex etc.....
2006-09-22 12:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by darlanota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like being treated that way now. Then don't expect getting married to be any better. It only gets worse because then you are stuck with her and she knows it. And then if you leave her she will take every penny you have. Are you a man or a mouse. Squeek up!
2006-09-22 12:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by lukn4sumpn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound like to me is that,if she loves you ,she would respect the fact your tired at work.You can't mess up your bread and butter for noone.And if she's that sex crazy if you slack down, she would probably be with for other reasons,but have her sex fix with someone else,seen it happen too many times including me.I had almost the same situation as you.So think about that before you f!@# your self DAWG!!!!GOOD LUCK BRO!!!!
2006-09-22 12:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Da..KINGizHeRe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman is a disaster waiting to happen. This behaviour you describe is NOT love and you need to get clear of it while you still can. If she's this way after 4 months, imagine what she'll be like in 4 years. She's trying to get a father for her son and a husband for herself and she's going to do whatever she feels like she has to do in order to get it.
Dude, save yourself from this woman.
2006-09-22 12:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt marry her but thats ur choice. if you love her and want to be misserable the rest of ur life then go ahead n marry her. u deserve much better and i think that if u wait that someone better will come along that will appreciate u more. i wish u the best of luck n have a great day!
2006-09-22 12:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, drop and run. I had a girlfriend who was similar to this, and they can make your life a living hell. I think that if you marry this girl, your life will be over and you may very well live to regret it. From one guy to another, clear you head, get rational and take another look at this relationship. Is the misery worth it to you?
2006-09-22 12:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋