i have an ex who wants to have another go i was with her 6-7 years ago and 4 months ago split with another ex who i took a chance with and had a second and third go should i just try and find someone new or take another chance? i am actually happy on my own but miss having that someone in my life
2006-09-22 05:26:51 · 24 answers · asked by browntbath 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she says she has grown up and now knows what she wants!
2006-09-22 05:31:26 · update #1
If your thinking about it a lot you must sub-consciously want to get back with her but think about why you split up last time and think about whether it could happen again. In the end its your decision and whatever you decide and something goes wrong just remember it isn't the end of the world.
2006-09-22 05:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by The Voices Are Getting Louder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually an ex is an ex for a reason. I'm not saying it isn't possible to have things work a second time, but things did end for a reason.
Are you willing to try again only to see things are the same as they were the first time around? Is what broke you up the first time a possibility the second time?
If you're really happy on your own then why not stay that way for a little while. Give yourself time to put things into perspective.
When you're ready to jump back into the dating pool .. why not give yourself a fresh start and look for someone new.
You never know who you'll meet .. could be the girl of your dreams.
Whatever you do decide though .. I wish you the best of luck!
2006-09-22 12:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by bluesie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you do something to change this relationship this time around it will end the same way as before. If you think there is enough between you to make a go of it maybe it would be worth going to a counsellor together. A counsellor will help you keep the good stuff and work out the bad stuff and help you figure out what you each really want from the other.
See the Relate people, they have a good website and lots of good books.
2006-09-22 12:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by SmartBlonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason that these females are your exes was b/c you guys weren't compatible and you guys had to split. If you want to give it another go you should think about whether or not, you guys changed your differences or whether you can. If not, why bother trying? Find someone new. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-09-22 12:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by M.Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women never know how to say what they mean and it comes out all wrong. If you feel that she deserves another chance then go for it it is how you feel and if you think that you should give her a chance take her out and you guys be alone and see how it goes. Depending on why y'all broke up before is an answer to if you should get back together.k?
2006-09-22 13:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by girly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easy to go back to what u know, the question is are u missing exactly that person or just what having someone in your life MEANS?
the feeling of being cared about/loved/wanted/needed is a very powerful thing and can make us humans do stupid things.
Time for a soul search, write down pros/cons to ur situation ...........the answer won't be like a lite bulb over your head but it will come to you
2006-09-22 12:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by koleebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever she is really mad at something or someone or even at you, whenever she doesnt get what she wanted, whenever she is trully loved?
When after you have taken her out for a great time etc...even for a month, and then do something stupid (not cheat on her of course not) that will piss her off ... then you will see what kind of a woman she REALLY is !
like when you forget her birthday for instance ...and buy her the gift the next day ... how would she be about it ??
would she be a bit*hc or what..?
In these matters... i can tell which woman or man (for ladies) is for real and which one is fake.
You gotto test women/men by both hot and cold ways to know their true colors ...if u get my drift!
hope this helps ...
2006-09-22 12:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by scary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are stupid and women are crazy -- this is what makes the world go round. If a woman said what she meant or a man didn't believe her bs then the world would reverse poles. Give up now.
2006-09-22 12:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women, say one thing and mean another, they try and catch men out all the time, take the Does My Bum look big in this, u stuffed what ever u reply..
2006-09-22 13:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by TONY C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. A woman rarely knows what she means. It's difficult to explain.
As far as your ex, well, why did you break up. Remember that, and you'll know whether or not you should get back together.
2006-09-22 12:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by mamafence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋