During my 2nd and 3rd trimester my boyfriend changed drastically. He started yelling at me and making me feel as thought I couldn't do anything right. I thought with the birth of our child that everything would return to normal but it hasn't he has become increasly irritable with me. It seems as though the sight of me sickens him. He tells me that he loves me but he never spends time with me nor my daughter. im so heartbroken, i cry all the time, im trying to save my relationship for my daughter's sake but he is not putting in any effort. I need advice......
2006-09-22 05:25:44 · 2 answers · asked by AndBabymakes4 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he wasn't ready to be a father and when you started showing his behavior started getting worse now she is here he is stressed that's no excuse for his behavior however it should have been something that was thought through before a child was brought into this world i know you do not want to leave but do you want your daughter to think its OK to allow a man to speak to her the way he is doing you ?Take the baby and leave and wait till your happily married before you have another child learn your lesson and move on
2006-09-22 05:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried to sit him down and talk about it? it may be the pressure or the realization of the responsibilities that he has come to realize. maybe he is stressed out. the only way to know for sure is to talk , talk talk, communication is the key.
2006-09-22 12:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by flwrgrl692001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋