I'm a petitie girl and I have big boobs. I don't dress slutty at all, but I'm not a nun either. I feel like when I'm talking to a guy, all he's thinking about are my boobs! It's kinda annoying. Some can barely look me in the eyes, or if they do, it's with a grin or I can tell they're thinking of something dirty! PIGS!!! It's flaterring, but sometimes I wish they would stop and just talk to me like anyone else! What do you think?
2006-09-22 05:25:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They can't help it!!!! "PIGISM" comes with the testosterone!!!!! Next time a guy is obviously only checking out your boobs...just simply look him in the eyes and say "They ARE fabulous aren't they!!!?" And walk away...he will fell stupid and you will get your point across without even trying. I guarantee he will remember that!!!!
2006-09-22 05:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by barb f 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You just have to accept the fact that pretty much every guy starts thinking about having sex with pretty much every girl he meets. If you have large breasts then you are just putting the issue a little more in his face so to speak. That's why the guys are grinning, because they know that you know what they are thinking about. If the girl doesn't have a large chest, the guy is still thinking the same thing, but he is also thinking that the girl might not be so aware of what he is thinking.
Sorry but this is just the way men are made.
You might have to just call them on it and move on.
2006-09-22 12:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have a boyfriend and he's had his fill of your boobs then you can talk to him. Meanwhile be lucky you get attention. Some of us people out here don't get any attention. It's the old grass is greener on the other side thing. You probably wouldn't like being ignored. Besides, most people are so dumb they don't know what to say anyway. I'm sure they're not so flabberghasted by your boobs that they forgot how to conversate. They just don't know how to conversate. People are retarded.
2006-09-22 12:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on their age, I suppose. If their hormone level is high at the moment, they will notice little else besides your breasts until their hormone level drops back down again.
How do you know what they are looking at anyway? Some guys are just being a smart-mouth. Some guys are too shy to make eye contact, and they think that YOU are the pig for assuming that they are looking at your breasts!
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You know, shy guys are tired of women being so ARROGANT and VAIN that they ASSUME that everyone is staring at her breasts simply because they are too nervous to maintain consistent eye contact.
Obviously, the problem is NOT with guys, it is with YOU and how you make yourself think and FEEL when you are around a guy.
Perhaps you should grow up and stop assuming so much.
2006-09-22 12:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by Randy G 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I apologze for the stupidy of my gender.
I am not gay, and have a very happy relationship with my girlfriend, who is also a small girl, with a large chest.
Some of this may be in your head, as you may be looking for something that is not there. "Slutty" is a relative term. Can a man, who usually stands taller then a woman, see down your shirt? How much clevage is actually showing?
Another problem you may have, is that you are hanging out with the wrong males. There are 3 types of human males.
Type 1: Boy: Wants to show girls gross stuff, because it makes them scream and jump.
Type 2: Guy: Wants to show girls THEIR gross thing, because they think they will scream when they feel it.
Type 3: Man: Wants to show a woman all of the gross things in the world, while holding their hand, and telling them, 'its alright'
Which type of male do you associate with?
2006-09-22 12:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, I have to apologize for most men in this world. Unfortunately our eyes are drawn to a woman's chest when she is well endowed. I wish I could say it is not true but I myself make an effort to look women in the eye and I am not thinking anything dirty. We are not all pigs and there are many men that will treat you with respect and not as a sex object.
2006-09-22 12:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys like that are a waste of time cuz its obvious that they are only after one thing. Next time this happens saying something to them because it will make them feel embarrassed. Say yeh they are only boobs or my eyes are up here. Then laugh at them and say well obviously u dont have anythin big (meaning penis) or u wouldnt be so mesmerized
2006-09-22 12:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sexy D♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know that guys are attracted to physical qualities more than girls are? We can immediately become attracted to someone simply from the looks of them. Just understand that we are different from you. We like to look at people we are attracted to. If you don't want us to look, don't wear anything that shows your "stuff." If someone is staring, tell him to close his mouth and stop drooling.
2006-09-22 12:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Shooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual. They can't help it. They have to be retrained to look women with anything over a B cup in the eyes. It takes time...
2006-09-22 12:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think I envy you actually you will meet the right guy someday I know there are good ones out there
2006-09-22 12:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by Linda G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋