Ok i have been having problems wit my man. I just need some feed back on this issue!
I alwayz let him go out wit his friends and I don't give him a set time to come back, but when it comes to me he insists to know what I'm doing, where I'm going and when I'm comming back! And if I'm late it's like I'm getting yelled at by my parents I grew out of that years ago and I don't need to feel this way. What should I do?
2006-09-22 05:14:20 · 22 answers · asked by willokta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a trust issue...He probably knows exactly what he is like when he goes out with his friends and sees other women out with their friends and is afraid you may be doing what they are doing. Next time he goes out with his friends, ask him where he is going, what time he will be getting home, who he talked to, what he did, all the questions he asks you...Then ask him all the same questions again in the morning and see if any answers change or get mixed up...if he is late, get mad and yell at him... When he asks what got into you and why you are acting like that, just tell him that is how he does you and you figured it must be the way to show you care and trust...
2006-09-22 05:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The reason why he needs to know your every move and where you are every 2 seconds is he is out cheating on you and don't want to run into you when he is with that other girl and so sorry that I had to put it like that but that is what it is so the next time you go out tell him you are one place and go to another and check up on him girl.
2006-09-22 12:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by lovely_sexy_finer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start doing the same thing to him--tell him he has to be home at a certain time and if he's late lay into his as*. When he gets pissy just tell him its exactly the way he treats you. And if you have given him no reason to not trust you then his behavior is just way too controlling.
2006-09-22 12:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you dont like that, hes your MAN not your father. Put your foot down on this issue, its a way of him controlling you. And he obviously doesnt trust you, so thats an issue you two need to resolve.
2006-09-22 12:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by Melia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb! If you are an adult, and you already have parents, you don't need him telling you where, when, how, and why....if he is that controlling of you when you are away from him, soon you won't be able to go anywhere, and it sounds like to me that's exactly what he wants....watch out! you need to take back control of yourself. Good luck!
2006-09-22 12:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by lil_rowdy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason he needs to know where you are at and when you will be home is because you are his property, and a man must know where his property is at all times. So get used to it. Otherwise leave his butt and find a man that is not possessive.
2006-09-22 12:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by solid132 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just insecure. He thinks if you hang out with the girls you might meet a couple of guys and hang with them. He is just so amazed by you he doesnt want to lose you. Just confront him and he should understand. just be able to see his side of veiw on the situation too.
2006-09-22 12:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by rodeojr23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, he is insecure, . The possessive behavior is a major red flag . I would get out, it only gets worse, I promise
2006-09-22 12:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by sofora k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, it sounds like he has a trusting issue. break it down to him that this is annoying and trust is the key for a healthy relationship. if he wants this to work, give trust a try.
2006-09-22 12:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you have no problem telling him. But you need to know where he is as well. If he says no then stop giving him info. .
2006-09-22 12:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋