....What does that mean? We have been dating / living together for 5mo now..... I am a little hurt. Is that wrong?
2006-09-22 05:09:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't worry about it. That is whay I tell me husband all of the time
2006-09-22 05:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by JUNONNKI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm did you watch Grey's Anatomy last night?
well that means he doesn't love you yet, but how long were you dating before you moved in together hopefully awhile, cause that is a HUGE step for ANY relationship especially for a guy hahaha and the "Love" thats a whole different level??
either way he could've lied and said he loved you but he was honest... and probably nervous I mean what do you say back to someone when they say the big "L" word and you aren't ready to say it back yet? Thanks? or That's nice? There's not really anything right to say when the other person isn't ready. I say now that you have said it don't say it again until he says it first. He knows you love him, and if you really do then give him some time. 5 months isnt that long of a time and girls always fall faster than guys. That's step is a big deal cause it takes "serious" to "long-term" Hey, you got him to move in with you right? But make sure you know he at least really cares about you, and isn't just using you cause you are in love with him.
2006-09-22 05:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by BeachLvr2006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with feeling a little hurt.
This guy sounds like a guy friend of mine. He does the same thing. He's not big on expressing his emotions and usually that's the response he gives.
Just because he didn't say I love you back it doesn't mean that he doesn't .. though it doesn't mean he does either.
He might be one of those guys that's not big on expressing how he feels or he may not be at the same point you are. Perhaps he's unsure whether he does love you and he needs more time or he does and he's just afraid to say it.
2006-09-22 05:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by bluesie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What it means that he knows how you feel about him but he's not too sure about his feelings for you. A lot of the time guys can tell when a girl really cares for them, we show it too much and too soon. You have only been dating/living together for 5 mos. It's not wrong for you to be hurt but by this time you have dealt with enough guys to know somethings about them.
2006-09-22 05:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men find it hart to say those three little words, be paitent with him ,don't be pushy, and he will come around to say it .
If you have lived together for quite some time, then I would say he dose love you , but he is not comfortable saying it just yet, or that the only reason you tell him you love him is to get him to say it back , and that makes him feel more presured, he wants to say it on his terms, try this ... Don't tell him you love him , like you normally do .. he is so used to hearing it will get him to thinking whats wrong .. it will be noticed and maybe he will say it first
2006-09-22 05:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be patient. There is a possibility that he's not ready to say the "L" word. When my husband and I got together it took him a year before he could actually tell me. He showed it plenty, but for some reason he could not say it. Talk to him about it. Being hurt is normal just talk to him.
2006-09-22 05:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by Moon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Called the Trying to be a Stud Harrison Ford wannabe talk.
2006-09-22 05:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, I would be hurt too.
FYI - My husband told me he loved me (when we first started dating) for the first time when he thought I was asleep! I had told him several times first, some men just have a hard time saying those words out loud ;)
2006-09-22 05:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by Sticky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's is probably afraid of commitment. this might be too hard if you are real attached but, i would pay him a lot less attention from now on, make special attempts to spend time with your friends instead of him. with a response like that he must think he's got you hooked, so you have to show him otherwise. Good Luck and just remember there's other fish in the sea! :)
2006-09-22 05:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by lynne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ouch... Its not wrong to be hurt. I mean there is nothing you can do a bout it either because if he doesn't love you than he doesn't love you. At the same time its OK to give him more time. Not everyone falls in Love at the same rate
2006-09-22 05:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by Skiball 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was just pulling a hans solo. If you don't know what that is it's in star wars where leah tells him she loves him, and he just says I know. Guys think that's more bad *** than saying it back. I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-09-22 05:12:12 · answer #11 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋