I m 25 n nvr had a bf b4. Really I m not bad looking but dun understand y no guys approach me at all??! There is just no guy coming fwd to befren me!! Staying at home whole weekend I am just so bored already!! Any suggestions?
2006-09-22 04:37:27 · 12 answers · asked by makansutra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out of the house and do something.
2006-09-22 04:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 07:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the way u act n makeup so scare people.What 4 u stay at home like a frog on the weekend.Go out 4 shopping.Just 4 the public no need 2 buy thing.Maybe u saw me n l like u ler.Or maybe u have a chance 2 know some new friends what.Don't make yourself bored inthe weekend u know.
2006-09-26 01:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear i so agree with rachelkelly's last para...u dunno whether laugh or cry at it. One hand u hear this from frens, another hand u hear repeated qns from relatives y arent u getting attached/married?! if only we have the answers or the ability to choose rite?! anyway to answer ur qn, although life and fate plays a part but there's still somethg u can do to play ur part, instead of leaving/blaming everythg to fate. If u r ready for r/s, u shd make urself heard/seen, hang out at places where there r ur potential types, sign up activities, get active in ur frens gatherings..I guess by staying at home on weekends, nobody can see u how r they gg to approach u? Btw do u give the aloof look or distance? Loosen up and be pro-active sometimes, it helps in striking up conversation if u appear easy-gg & easy to talk to. Have fun as u date :)
2006-09-24 02:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by crazyzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys don't have the courage to approach pretty girls because they feel inferior.
I see alot of pretty women 'left on the shelf' because of this reason and these women have the inhibition in taking the first step. They rather be chased after than chasing men but then again if he's chauvinistic or conservative, it's pointless.
It's pretty acceptable in this day and age; go and hunt for your Mr. Right now and take your bold first step.
2006-09-22 06:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Keepgoing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check yourself...... its never looks alone... ask yourself all the tough questions.. 1 am i approachable ..2 do i smile genuinely when i meet people that i like.. 3 is my attitude good...4 am i bossy.. 4 am i a dictator ..5 must it always be my way..etc these traits will make anyone be a loner even though there are some people that find these qualities attractive... lastly where are u looking for friends.... or are u drop dead gorgeous and guys are intimidated by your looks.. u kno the answers hope this helps
2006-09-22 04:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. try going out with friends more often... approach a guy if u really like him... me now 30 too also dun have a steady gf... but i dun think i can't find or what lo... i believe in fate and i believe my fate hasn't comes yet... maybe u r 1 of them too... just have confidence in yourself... or maybe u can email me at porridge0000@yahoo.com Maybe we be able to 'click' and you and i will have companion during weekend... hahaa...
2006-09-24 20:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mi Xue,
Maybe you are tooooo pretty ;) Sometimes guys are shy to come up to pretty women to talk to them.
Have you tried taking a more active part in things?
- Pick up a hobby and learn something from a CC
- Go to more gatherings with your friends (90% of the people I know were introduced to each other by friends)
- List down the type of person you want and ask yourself where to find people like that and GO THERE
- Or you can even go online and meet more people.. but be careful about this one.. too many people are not wat they seem to be online..
Good luck!
2006-09-22 05:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 25 and have never had a girlfriend. Don't sweat it, some people like us are 'late bloomers' when it comes to relationships. You'll find your special someone one day, and you'll be glad you didn't just go for the first good looking guy that came along.
2006-09-22 04:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
friend i tell u.........after i broke off with my ex a couple of yrs ago.......its been a long long time that im single.......and when every1 asks mi if im attached and i tell them im single........no 1 actually believe in mi......i have a lot of guy friends but im single...im worst than you im supposed...
my friend even tell me....you are single...dont lie.....even if you are single i dont think u will need help in any way....with your look you can get any guy u want..........
imagine how u feel when you hear that.........
2006-09-23 09:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by rachelkelly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋