My bf got mad at me last night over some things I didn't realize I was doing. I did apologize, but he's still angry. We love each other, but as some people say, "sometimes love isn't enough". Should I try and call him, or should I let him call me when he's ready to talk? It was something minor that turned into a blow-up, and now I think I've lost him. But, if I don't try to talk to him will he think I don't care? I'm just trying to let him work through his emotions right now, and not exacerbate the situation until he's ready to talk. I'm so sad...please don't make fun of me.
Thanks.
2006-09-22 04:17:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Their are two things you can do. 1. - send him a card, stating I am sorry, please except my apology, and have dinner with me, you can take him out or you can cook!! 2 - You can make that phone call. and say, "Honey I am so sorry, can we kiss an make up?" And Baby, the next time we have a disagreement, can we work, on trying to talk about it, so we will not have to go through any thing like this again? I want us to have a good strong relationship, and be able to deal with any situation!!
2006-09-22 04:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would kinda help if we knew what he got mad about, but to be honest, if it was minor and you apologized, I think he is looking for a reason to be mad at you. Has he become distant lately? Did you see this coming? If everything was great, then he turned on you, this is suspect too. I know you hurt, but you shouldn't chase a guy who treats you like this. I would call him one more and ask him if you guys are OK (still dating) because you still care about him. See what his reaction is. An apology for something minor is ALL I NEED to get over it, so I think he is creating something over nothing to get out of this relationship. give it one more try, but don't chase him.....there are plenty of other guys that would love to have you.
2006-09-22 04:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by Shyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. If he doesn't want to talk to you, then let him work thru his feelings. But next time make it be known that if you do something that annoys him then he needs to say something from jump. It's not fair to let that shyt fester and then blow up one day when it could all be resolved in the beginning...and you had no idea. My ex did that all the time. And that's why were ex's.
2006-09-22 04:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by caramellatte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always at least make an effort to talk to someone or let them know you would like to talk. Never assume that they will know your waiting on them because they could be waiting on you and then nothing ever happens other than both people get more upset with each other.
2006-09-22 04:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just send him a message telling him your sorry and that you hope you can work things out because you love him and miss him.
I know you want to give him space thats fine, but don't leave it to long because your be going out of your head.
If you don't speak to him today go round to him with something he likes, something special so he can see how much you love him.
Good luck keep your head up
2006-09-22 04:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right to give him time. Later (and you'll know when the time is right), talk about how it made you feel being isolated. Ask him if it's something you both can work on as a couple - is it something that he feels only your behavior that should changed... work it out together.
2006-09-22 04:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by tampico 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get some of the same reactions, your doing the right thing let him have his space BUT dont be putting yourself down. There might be things that you do that pisses him off but what about the **** he does. Mine does things he wants and i have to deal so i started playing his game and guess what he dont like it. Live your life for you not him
2006-09-22 04:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by heyall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait for a couple of days and then call him..Tell him you're sorry again...THen have a chat about how you usually act and ask him to tell you if you've done something he doesn't like...But that does not mean you should comply to whatever he says=)
2006-09-22 04:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by karL_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a letter or an email to explain how you feel. that way is less intrusive, if he doesn't want to talk to you then allow him that option. women tend to talk too much (I know I'm one!) and that really aggravates men especially when they are upset with you. You guys may work this out and live happily ever after
2006-09-22 04:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by Vivian G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a few days and if he hasn't called by then, call him. that way he has some time, but you aren't giving him too much time to let him think that you don't care.
2006-09-22 04:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋