i wanna have a baby but i know im still young (20 years old) and i havent finish college yet.. but its just soo nice to have a baby coming from your belly, similar to you with the same blood :-)
2006-09-22 04:17:36 · 12 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
hahahah no no no actually! it just that im at work now and one of the people that i work with, received a call from his wife sayin she was pregnant :).... its just something emotional.... its not that i reall want to have a baby... im not prepare for that~
i know how hard is to have a baby.. i had took care of babies in the past and its HARD WORK! i also had 3 dogs... puppies all of them and believe me is not as cute as when you see it and wanna cuddle it....
its hard but its soo nice .... its worthfull i can say
2006-09-22 04:38:21 · update #1
I am 33 years old, and had my first child when I was 24. I had finished college, and had a career. Some of my friends didn't wait, and are still not done with college. I have since had another child, and gotten a divorce. If I hadn't taken the time to accomplish my goals first, I could be struggling at some minimum wage job with no future, and no insurance(important with kids). You're on the right track. Finish school. Everything changes when you have a baby...classes are harder to get into when you need daycare or a sitter..and you have to feed and clothe the baby...so you need to work..hmmm...work full time, and raise a child...doesn't sound like there is much room for college in there!20 is so young. You haven't even begun to live life yet.You'll be doing yourself AND the baby you want a favor by waiting! Good luck in your choice!
2006-09-22 04:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by katleblancis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being pregnant is great. It is filled with a lot of emotions. I wondered what she/he would look like. Which characteristics would the little one have from me. Sometimes I would feel like I had an alien in me and at anytime it would pop out of my belly by my belly button and slowly turn around and look at me (creepy dreams). My dreams were more vivid and at times seemed real. Near the end of my pregnancy, I was thankful of the times I use to sleep through the night without getting up 5 times a night to go pee. I never felt alone. A little buddy was always with me. Each pregnancy is different doesn't matter boy or girl ( I have 4 kids). One pregnancy I couldn't eat enough pizza, another it was chocolate( I ended up with a cavity :(), another it was cooked broccoli with cheese melted, and another there was no craving at all. But when a pregnant woman craves something, and gets it, it is almost orgasmic because of the taste is soooo heightened...wierd, I know. My husband witnessed.
2006-09-22 05:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by missy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, yeah it is such a beautiful and amazing thing. I was 19 when i fell pregnant. I am now 21 and my baby boy just turned 1 a day ago. Its an experience you just cant describe into words. I give every bit of my time to my little boy and i love it. I wouldnt have it any other way. I think its great to have your babies earlier on in life! I dont see why people make a fuss of people being young with babies when they dont know you at all. If anything, a baby will help you grow up! Goodluck, i hope everything turns out the way you planned.
2006-09-22 04:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jordy[♥] 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not a good reason to get Pregnant .. You have to be ready for the Human Life that is Placed in your hands. I had My first one when i was 17.. yea .. that was not fun .. But as i grew up i started to realize how much it really took .. now i have 2 lil girls , it's ALOT i mean ALOT of work. They depend on you for Everything , an you have to be there to give it to them. Read up on Babies , an how much work it really takes , then decied when you are ready , Finish School , live life a little Bit , your not even 21 !! Go out party now , cause once you have that baby .. that Baby is ALWAYS the FIRST thing on your list , no matter what. Much Luck to ya !!
2006-09-22 04:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by lilredhead 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I actual have some jealousy of pregnant mothers. My youngest is 9 months old now and my husband and that i agreed that she'd be our final toddler (i'm 38 years old so we in all probability have not got plenty longer to have young little ones anyhow, plus we've 5 now or perhaps however we are in a reliable financial place and we are handling super, the home is incredibly finished!). I actual omit being pregnant and that i do form of desire that shall we've yet another toddler, even however i know we heavily isn't having to any extent further. I omit those first few toddler days and that i omit feeling kicks and ultrasounds. being pregnant isn't exciting (my 0.33 being pregnant replaced into rather unfavourable and that i replaced into ill the entire time and he replaced into born by using emerg c-area which replaced into rather depressing) even yet it rather is form of mind-blowing and magical and that i actual desire i could adventure it lower back...
2016-12-12 12:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had my son at 19 years old and hes now 7 months old. i am a single mother and it is not fun. when i found out i was pregnant i was scared, and not ready. but a baby definitely makes you grow up and fast. if you feel you are ready for a baby then find someone who will love you and appreciate you and settle down. make sure he's gonna stick around. only you know whats best for yourself. but be prepared for the halt on your life. because nothing will be about you anymore, its all about the baby. and good luck with the lack of sleep.
2006-09-22 05:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it was the best moment in my life when I found out I was going to have a baby. Even when your belly starts to grow it is so wonderful to feel the baby moving around in there. Best Wishes
2006-09-22 06:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me being pregnant was the most beautiful part of my life. The feeling of being blessed to carry a child to term. The movement from inside you. The hiccups that tickled me, just the whole over all of it all was great. And I would be pregnant all my life if a child didn't have to come out anymore...LMAO....
2006-09-22 05:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was pregnant with my son it was a wonderful feeling to be having somebody growing inside you and it is very emotional. I loved being pregnant.
2006-09-22 05:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET A PUPPY FIRST TO SEE WHATS ITS LIKE TO HAVE SOMETHING TOTALLY DEPENDANT ON YOU..
Belive me a puppy is alot easier than a baby.
If you dont have time or paitients for the clearing up, training, walking and getting someone to be with it while its a puppy and your away your not ready to be a mum...
2006-09-22 04:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋