DUMP HIM... He will never get better, he will always be that way. The only thing you can do is let him go and find someone who will not be looking over your shoulder at every move you make. Its a little childish and ridiculous that people do this to others. My husband and I dont have any secrets, but we dont "check up" on eachother EVER. Its not important because we both figure the other person will share what they were doing anyways. Good luck.
2006-09-22 04:09:52
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answered by Angel Eve 6
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leave him. he's probably cheating and thats why he is suspective, and paranoid. Plus, insecurity is not attractive at all. It'll probably get worse if you stay, meaning he'll eventually become physically abusive. again, leave him.
2006-09-22 04:10:19
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answered by feefee3 1
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By respecting his feelings and reassuring him - ONCE. After that, ignore constant pleadings for reassurance. No one needs an emotional burden for a bf/gf. He's got to learn to feel secure on his own. If you (or he) can't deal with it, you may want to re-think your relationship.
2006-09-22 04:12:04
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answered by Avid 5
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Cool off- you need space.Find another one who will not cause you a mental breakdown.
2006-09-22 04:15:18
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answered by karatekiddo 3
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