im not actualy im in love with my girlfriend, today she pulled a sick joke on me i got angry she started to cry it made me realize that was really in love. the think is im not so passoinate bout her. what should i do??
2006-09-22 03:50:57 · 20 answers · asked by adam j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't confuse love with sensitivity..
2006-09-22 03:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by tampico 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't think you will ever love her leave, because the longer you're with her the harder it's going to be on her. If you see a possibility of loving her in the near future, stick around and see what happens. You don't have to say you love her just because she might love you.
2006-09-22 03:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end this relationship now
the deeper you go the worse it gets
and anyway she will grow from it
set her straight but do it in a kind way
say how you feel
step up and do not be a coward
have confidence
she may only think she is in love anyway
once you do this things will get better 4u
and her as well
2006-09-22 03:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by Queen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey now is the time to tell her. The sooner the better. It will only cause things to get worse if you don't face up to the facts now. Let her down easy, but do it soon.
Good Luck and God Bless
2006-09-22 03:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull a sick joke on her then dump her....... no, i've got a better idea. Dump her, then pretend its a sick joke, say you only did it to see if she was as in love with you as you are with her. then after she's gotten over crying dump her again for real.
2006-09-22 03:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by jonny Atlantis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Games are for children...are you a child?
Tell her so she can stop wasting her time on you.
I hate that about men, you guys hang on to someone you're lukewarm about just because you dont wanna be alone...then you either cheat or dump for someone "better".
Its so lame! If you don't love her, tell her so she can move on and find someone who is right for her...dragging it out is just mean.
2006-09-22 04:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sticky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well either you love her or you don't. If so tell her. Talk about how you feel. If you don't want to be with her, let her go. Don't hold onto her just to make you feel good. That isn't fair to her. Just talk about your feelings, maybe you'll find out something new that she feels. However it works out, good luck to you both!
2006-09-22 03:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Amanda♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there!!
Start letting your girlfriend know and feel how you really love her before others might do that..
Take care of your girlfriend and be happy..
2006-09-22 03:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passion doesn't usually develop from nowhere, I'd say move on. You can love someone and care for them without dating them.
2006-09-22 03:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it isn't going to work. Then move on with your life. You better tell her now then down the road.
2006-09-22 03:53:36 · answer #10 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
2006-09-22 03:53:01 · answer #11 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋