I have been talking to this amazing woman in Arizona and we never run out of things to talk about.Same beliefs and views on life,love and, the world around us!Get back to me and let me know if there are any optimists left in the world or is everybody jaded by past experience!?
2006-09-22 03:31:13 · 19 answers · asked by Mr.Intellect 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call me an optimist if you must but I believe its more then possible. It's been my experience that distance has VERY little to do with love. No matter what your head knows, your heart doest care that she is that far away. I'm still a firm believer in what is meant to be will always find its way.
2006-09-22 03:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by sadbeauty887 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, I am usually an optimist but if you two haven't met, I would wait to meet in person before you let your heart get too tied up in it all. I met this guy online a couple years ago, we talked and talked and talked on the phone, we had all the same beliefs and views also....we got so that we couldn't barely stand to get off the phone at night and we couldn't wait to get up and talk again in the morning. One day I drove to meet him and he didn't look anything like his picture...and although I am very pretty I told him ahead of time I was a little on the chubby side, he had reassured me that he like meat on a woman and I thought it was going to be great. But he was wimpy looking and it turned me off...I was still willing to try to make a go of it based on the mental connection but he told me later that if I was 20 lbs lighter he might have considered it. I realized he wasn't anything I thought he was....and it never would have worked between us....mental attraction is great and will go a long way but eventually physical attraction plays a part no matter how deep and intelligent you are! You are infatuated with the thought of this woman...but you don't really know her....wait till you can meet in person before drawing any conclusions...until then, it feels good to know you mentally connect like that doesn't it??
2006-09-22 03:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by Shae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until you or your parents get the next telephone bill. You will find that 'your little darling' has a premium rate number which will have cost you a fortune for twenty hours talking. You have been had over. Love - it is hard enough to find true love in your own neighbourhood, so don't expect to find it at the end of a computer or telephone. Get up off your ar*se and get out and about in your local area and meet 'real' people, not someone from the other side of the country.......
2006-09-22 03:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's very easy to fall in love with your computer . Remember what we say or do over the internet would not be equal to acting out in person . If you think you are in love travel 1000 miles. But beware , you might end up bumping into someone just like you .... a man.
2006-09-22 03:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by harlingenguy_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be a pessimist. There was a time I would have said, "Not possible!" But guess what? Life is too short. Sometimes in life you have to take a chance. Only you can decide that for yourself.
If you meet her, and you discover it was true love....you both are very lucky!
But if you meet her and you discover she wasn't the one....at least you can say that for a brief moment in time....you were happy.
See, the glass is still full.
2006-09-22 06:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so!
If you had met her in "real life" first off, and went on dates to the movies and things in the first place, you would probably not know her as well as you do now.
You won't know for sure until you see each other in person because physical attraction is also essential, but I would definitely give it a try. Good Luck!
2006-09-22 04:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible....anything is possible. Given the circumstances it would seem more likely it is falling in "Lust". True love takes a lot longer to accomplish. It could easily be the beginnings of true love though, so don't discount anything.
Optimist = glass is always half full.
Pessimist = glass is always half empty.
I say it depends on what's IN the glass!
2006-09-22 04:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this very serious question and answer honestly? "Can I really know someone in only 4 days?"
Love is a total commitment, a lifelong commitment. Love is choosing to bestow your deepest emotions, your heart and soul, to someone for life. You "want" to be in love like everybody does; however, you can't be in love with anyone until you know them, and you can't know them until you have been with that person and understand what makes them tick. It is one thing for someone to tell you how they feel or how they would respond to a situation, but you will never know the answer to that issue until you OBSERVE how they respond to circumstances. Be smart. Think with your big head along with your heart, and above all else, be honest with yourself.
2006-09-22 03:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by JT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since I am in a similar situation I can honestly say from experience that yes it is very possible to fall in love with someone who is 1000 miles away,,,don't let anything anyone else says deter you from what you feel is right for you
2006-09-22 04:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by too shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it is possible, you don't have to see someone to fall in love. "This is like love at first conversation" lol. But maybe you should fly to see her or she should come see you. And hopefully you fell that same love when yo see her in person, that would be amazing! Good Luck with her.
2006-09-22 03:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋