and my pillow had "tracks", I won't go into details about my hair or what I tasted! I was a little pi**ed cuz I thought one of them did his "thing" on me in my sleep! I asked and they both denied it and said they had head aches too! I do it at least once a week anyways so I'm not a prude and I'm not as mad as much as I am confused and kind of scared. Now I'm wondering if it was a guy who broke in!! How could this be? I'm thinking about getting an alarm. Weird! Just wanted to share (vent, rant or report) about it.
2006-09-22 03:29:26 · 17 answers · asked by ? 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thanks to all who gave me good answers!
The guys and I talked it through and decided we will get a house alarm to include fire, carbon monoxide, as well as my bedroom door. It's gonna call the cops when it goes off. The installer comes tomorrow, tuesday. Our biggest concern, which was an idea given to me in an email, was that we may have been gased while we slept. This person came into our house and nobody heard a thing! We ALL had headaches.
If I have to explain what I meant when I said I "do it" once a week I think I'll just pass on that!
The reason I'm not "up in arms" over it is because I've been physically hurt in the past, badly!, and I wasn't this time. I have an appointment to have a blood test today. I'll know more in a few days. My philosophy is that you make choices in life and then you live with the results. I've made mine.
I'll pick a best answer in a day or so.
Thanks again to all of you who are adult in your responses.
2006-09-25 02:59:44 · update #1
First of all if you suspect them in any way of any sexual missdealings tward you, it needs to be dealt with. If you suspect an intruder you need to suggest an alarm for the home to the men and have the police called so that this doesnt happen again as the next time something could go seriously rong.. the intruder could get startled and go further than sexual deviancy.
This is not a matter to take lightly on either case..
it is something to be dealt with , on a law enforcement level..
you need to call a profecional in to deal with this.. if this is going on you need to let them deal with it.. and gather their evidence.. and proceed with an investigation.
2006-09-22 03:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by RiahWillow 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait, I'm really confused here.
What is it you "do once a week?"
Who do you do "it" with?
With them?
Are these two men a gay couple?
Do they live an area where break in's are so common place that you're NOT having a cow over it?
I'm sorry, but you seem WAY too calm about this.
Someone violated you while you slept and you're not in arms over it.
I would have called the police, regardless if they denied anything or not! Someone came into your bedroom and did something either to you or directed towards you in a sexually devient fashion.
This is not an acceptable form of behavior, no matter what circle you go around in.
2006-09-22 06:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is one possibility you may want to consider, but it will distinctly change your work environment. Call the police. They will do an analysis of the stuff on your pillow and hair, check for a DNA match of the two men, and if it is someone else they will investigate and pursue that--but if it is one of the two men, life just got a big jolt to your work situation at least. If one of them did it sleep walking he will look just as guilty as if one of them purposely did their sexual assault--which is what this was. On the other hand, if you have an intruder, who is going to know to watch until you raise an alarm and you already have some evidence against him (although you've likely disposed of it by now). It the situation is not fixed, it could get stranger, and more dangerous.
2006-09-22 06:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
while i grew to become into working I have been given up at 4:30 AM to get waiting for paintings. Now I sleep in till 6:30 or 7:00 interior the morning. I additionally pass to mattress later too. appear like 4:00 - 5:00 im the morning is early.
2016-10-01 06:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bit of a mystery in your question, I wonder were you are from, Are you using the heating system yet? If so I might be concerned with Carbon Monoxide problems from your heating source.
2006-09-23 08:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by nicenvt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand what you are saying, you might want to go into a little more details. I think i get what you are saying, but then i don't . I am not sure what you are getting at. But if you seem scared in anyway, get an allarm and lock your doors at night.
2006-09-22 03:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do sumting. Yeah sure get an alarm, or sumting els. Dont let urslf b used like dat. It wasnt consentual, so its rong
2006-09-22 06:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a chain or lock for on your bedroom door. What's so hard about that? Problem solved!
2006-09-22 08:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one of these old guys did this too you while you slept -- or you suspect it -- get out of there -- or, at the very least, get a lock for your room.
2006-09-22 07:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was someone they invited over. Or, they could have played a joke on you and put some kind of syrup . I guess?
2006-09-22 04:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋