I've known this guy since we were in the 3rd grade ok but we lost touch for the past 7yrs.Just this wed. a mutual friend gave him my number and he called me so happy!! so hear from me he said" I thought I lost you forever"We met up and went on this romantic walk.Talked, laughed..and shared special memories of eachother.he was holding me at one point and said"have u ever had that feeling that u know ur just supposed to be with that person?"(he had his change 7yrs ago but he choose another girl over me)he kissed me and held me sooo tight! we made plans for friday night (tonight) I called him a few times yesterday and he never picked up till late at night ( he hates phones)but yet he didnt seem like he was that into meeting up with me again.do you think he might show up tonight? Should I even try calling him later tonight to see if we are still on?did he mean all that he said? please help I need advice asap!! I can email more info about this sita. too help better answer this. thanks
2006-09-22 03:27:45 · 6 answers · asked by ladalina1113 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-09-22 10:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, you just got to take chances. The trick is not to seem desperate! If you had made plans for tonight, give your end of the bargain and show up! On the positive side, he just might want to surprise you so he does not want give too much information. So be patient and go to the spot where you are supposed to meet! Have fun and good luck!
2006-09-22 10:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dear u really need help at dis time...ok listen stop going onto him..i mean give him time to think abt u also... juz dont call him evrytime .. wait4at least his call... u said he hates phone calls. letz c if u dont cal him one day or two... does he call back or not? i must say u shd not b more onto this person... im sure u like him and he too.. it cannot b show off... may b he finds a frnd in u who can b wid him forver..he need u....& likes u dearly...juz njoy being wid him...the moments u share now...juz live them.. aftr these moments dont call him agin & agin...ok ...BEST LUCK! buddy
2006-09-22 11:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, don't call him. guys always know the time of the date. show up @ the agreed place, have you cell with you, just in case. something seems fishy to me. why would he says he doesn't like phone? i only say that when i girls @ my place. he might be a player, the dude is wayyy to romantic. i know this might burst your bubble, but be optimistic
2006-09-22 10:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i advice u not to call him, if he really wants u he'll do everything he can to b with u, he has to take the steps not u. now that u called him and he didnt answer u , u should wait for him to call back but dont call him again.
2006-09-22 10:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by green_n6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't know things 'til you've done them or w/e.
So just call him and see what's up.Hope it works out.
2006-09-22 10:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by L.T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋