I met a girl the other week and we decided to go on a date..i took her to the cinema & i noticed that half way through the movie she started trying to play footsie with me which i thought was quite annoying & unnapropriate for the first date. Then to my suprise she slithered her hands down my levi's and started tinkering with my now semi erect johnson. I couldnt take no more and i left embarressed & in a huff...it's not that i don't like her little fingers playing around with my package it's just that i think it was a little forward for the first date...why are females so insensitive & always just think of sex, im becoming tired of their shallow and one-track ways...what do i do?
2006-09-22 03:25:07 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it does seem a bit forward,
but maybe she thought the film was boring and she wanted something to do.
2006-09-22 03:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just going through a tough time at the moment.
Hang in there... Not all girls are like that.Maybe try a first date in a more lit up area like a restaurant or pub just so you can get to know her before you get too romantic.
It is tough these days to find girls that are interested in more than one thing but we are there... Honest!
I do find it really strange that a guy is asking this sort of question though!!! Usually, it's the girls complaining.
How times have changed eh????
2006-09-22 03:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jeez that WAS kinda pushy!!! Ten out of ten to you for wlaking away from this - in fairness not many guys would have.
Like you I definately think thats inappropriate behaviour for a first - even second date!
However not all women are like her - its just like with men - there are some sex mad ladies out there - in the future, maybe just date a different type of lady - or make it clear that you're not into jumping straight into sexual relations for the first few dates.
I still cannot believe I just read this question! I think you're defo in the minority of men that think the way you do!!!!
2006-09-22 03:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW She did move quick ! Most of the time it is the guy going too fast. You are rare--but not gay. I think that she probably just has no respect for herself in that aspect.
If it makes you uncomfortable then walk away. You will find someone that goes your speed. However I have to say, judging from my sons friends they are few and far between. He like you though likes to take it slow. It doesn't make you gay. You just have morals it sounds like to me, your parents raised a good man.
2006-09-22 03:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by iceprincezz2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way, she is the client and you the shop keeper give her what she wants and move on, this would be the perfect situation for every straight man in the world.
2006-09-22 03:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by EASWOOTH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women are like that, trust me! i would never be so forward on a date of all things. some people are totally sex oriantated.....good on ya for walking away from a situation that you werent comfortable with.
2006-09-22 03:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by fifs_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy cheeseburgers batman... I think the girl you're talking about is me!!! It was dark and I couldn't see you, so I was going to stick a paper bag over your head and pretend you were that doctor from Lost...
2006-09-22 05:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH PLEASE!!all you men think about is sex and not all women are that straight forward I think that what that girl did was inappropriate.
2006-09-22 03:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by wizardalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blimey, i applaud your attitude, most men would love to be in your situation, maybe the girl is unsure of what you like about her and tries to use sex as a way of getting you to like her? pretty insecure i agree, but there we are!!
tell her why you asked her out on a date, maybe if you explain what you liked about her personality she wouldn't have to rely on her femenine charms?
good luck!!
SJ
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2006-09-22 03:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl a **** dont ever see her again girl who give out of the first 5 dates are sluts! not go with her and in a movie what a hoe bag.
2006-09-22 03:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by josh5c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋