New relationship - having a GREAT time - but it is moving fast - already hearing the "i love you" after 2 weeks. Wow. I feel it will grow into that, but I am apprehensive this soon. How do I tell him to chill without hurting his feelings?
2006-09-22 03:20:05 · 16 answers · asked by CoronaGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, the L word is not to be use until you mean it. 2 weeks is way too soon to use it. your action will speak louder than words. talk to him less often, see him less often also.
2006-09-22 03:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
fist u will have to consider your feelings fist be for that of the guy's because if any thing goes wrong you will have to suffer the greatest loss. you know girls have very fragile emotions which should not be tempered with. To do this who would have to give him a break, like having him call only once in a week. And during that time he will have the time to think and consider what he is doing.
2006-09-22 10:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by simis d great achiver in d world 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fu*k his feelings girl, if man is tellin you he loves you under 2 weeks or even under 2 months for that matter, hes messed up and he dont realy love you. i mean, you dont love him, do you?!! no. so why has he fallin so deeply madly "inlove", sorry, but i dont trust men who say them sort of things. hold on for now, dont let too much go if you know what i mean, and just tell him,u are really fond of him and that you hope to have a really good lasting relatinship with him, but its a bit too strong too soon. mention that you want to be with him for a long time before you tell him to cool down, you be giving mixed signals but then again you are too, with respect, weak to tell him slow down without trying to justify yourself.
You have a right to tell him to slow down and not feel bad, afterall, if he does realy like you then he will understand. gudluck. **)
2006-09-22 10:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love in 2 weeks is scary...he might be a pyscho so becareful....remember, their always super sweet in the beginning then their true colors come out after you fall for them
Tell him that your interested in him but feel like its going a little too fast. It'll only help your relationship in the long run...
2006-09-22 10:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him u really like him but u think ya'll should slow down a bit have fun let the seriousness come later!
2006-09-22 10:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just joke around. Give him hints that he's moving too fast. Guys can take a hint sometimes.
2006-09-22 10:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say to him slow down. i mean it's funny i am kinda in the same boat but i was the one told to slow down. i mean i didnt' say i love u or nething but i mean both of us shared the connection and all that but she just told me to chill cause i mean she sees us together but she just had broken up with her bf so yea. but now i am just waitn hoping it's for the best.
just tell him straight out.
2006-09-22 10:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by polobaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say this this realtionship is going really good I just think we should tske things slow
2006-09-22 10:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The I love you might just mean I like you. Don't read a lot into it.
2006-09-22 10:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I got dumped once over it... guess I didn't see her quite enough^^
But my advice would be... just lose the guy, cos if he doesn't like your answer, he might just feel insulted and take revenge... on whatever sick way that might be( it's kindof a dutch-maroccan custom, ya know what I mean?)
2006-09-22 10:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by James N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋