Ok so Ive been w/this guy for about 6 yrs... off and on. He has cheated on me once or twice. On one of the off times i met this guy, we really hit it off and the s-e-x was GREAT. Me and the bf are back together, living together and last night the "great one" clld. do i call him back??
2006-09-22 03:17:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go on...its your turn to play hide-and-seek...
2006-09-22 03:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2sweet! I guess I would have to ask you a question? If you are even thinking about calling him back then you are not in love with you bf as much as you should be! Put it this way when you have been cheated on, no matter how long ago or when it was, it is something you will never forget in the back of your mind! Maybe you are just trying to not get hurt again by thinking about calling this guy back! Maybe you are inscure in your relationship now! Don't call him to mess with his mind, or for sex if you are in love with your bf! Only call him to tell him you can't talk to him anymore because you are in a relationship, if that is how you feel! On the other hand if you are not feeling good about this relationship, and you want to call, then call, but you are only setting yourself up for a down fall, because this guy that is calling is only calling for one thing! Is that what you want???? You have to ask yourself is it worth your relationship?
Good Luck Hun!
Always Amy
2006-09-22 10:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to leave your boyfriend I would suggest that you not return the phone call. You know how it felt to be cheated on and if you were to "hook up" with this other guy it sounds like the chance would be good that you may be unfaithful. Then you would have to live with guilt. It is best to hold off until you move on from who you are with now.
2006-09-22 10:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting your time on a man who has already proven himself unworthy. You need to end one before you begin another. I would move on and give someone else a chance. The new one may be the right one. Good luck
2006-09-22 10:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on whether you see the relationship with your current bf going somewhere.
Would it break his heart if you left him or if you slept with someone else?
Are you secretly wishing that you could be single and sleep with anyone and not have no repercussions?
At the end of the day it's up to you to decide.
2006-09-22 10:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by Richard C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is Cheat involved....for me...i'll forget about him or her.....get on with life and move on...cheaters are not worth it as once they cheat once, there might be a chance of the second time. Don't worry....U will find another person that will love u and will not cheat.
2006-09-22 10:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by adrian851010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl..... for starters, why did you get back with your cheating boyfriend???? you must love him that much, that's why..... alright , none of my business..... but about the guy calling you...... you must think...... that guy seems the type of a one night stander..... go call him back if you think it's pay back time and you want to be the one to cheat this time...... don't if your feeling like being loyal to your bf...... it's your call, i can't force you......
2006-09-22 10:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by <--tsk--> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, be, if you REALLY love him, be faithful. The other guy was basically a ''booty call'' until you got your man back. I know it was good but you gotta stay with your man, cuz if you leave you will regret it, I promise.
2006-09-22 10:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think 1st one wanted only for a relationship,he was a cheat,y u want to be called a cheat,by the one u hav ?,be faithful to him ,n be happy.........nor u may get in trouble n ther is no use regreating later......
2006-09-22 10:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by unlucky hand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u call him back and he wants sex, do u wanna cheat on ur bf?
2006-09-22 10:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by sexygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if your in a monogamous relationship. Have respect for everyone involved including yourself.
2006-09-22 10:22:53 · answer #11 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋