IT IS MY CHURCH ya ding bat! (sorry) and I am not trying to harm anyone, I just want someone to deal with this and I don't want it to be me. As someone pointed out He has no right to behave in this manner and posing as a Pastor! Like I said this is MY CHURCH I am trying to raise my six year old there and this SHOULD NOT BE!!!!
2006-09-22 03:03:52 · 6 answers · asked by hippie chic 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Wow. Yeah, I guess you can't be too upset for getting answers you don't agree with.
This world has a lot of moral decay and much of it is caused by people who think it's none of their business. Right. Like I said to your previous question, it is absolutely your business. A person in a leadership position of a religious organization should be leading an exemplary life. If your religion believes in chasteness and monogamy in a marriage, your pastor is not setting the appropriate example and you have every right to bring this information forward to him and then to those in charge at the church.
Do what you feel is appropriate and do it in the spirit of building each other up, not tearing down.
And for the person who asked what business did you have on the site, uh, it sounds to me like you are a single person looking for a mate. Not a married pastor with kids looking for a bisexual dating partner.
I just wonder if the pastor is looking for a third person to bring into the bedroom so I wouldnt' suggest mentioning it to his wife.
2006-09-22 05:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by stimply 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your concern, and that's a hard question. On the one hand, what he's doing is questionable, but on the other hand, you don't want to gossip or do anything that would hurt someone else. I would say start by really praying and seeking God as to what you should do. He probably should be confronted, but there is a right and wrong way to go about it. So seek God's wisdom on that and follow Him. That's all I can say.
By the way, you might want to post a link to your original question on this one for those who didn't catch it. Just add it as a detail.
Best of luck.
2006-09-22 10:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because he's a pastor doesn't mean that he and his wife don't want to get freaky in the bedroom! You have no idea whether the wife is actually participating in the website or not. It's their PERSONAL (get it?) life, not PUBLIC life. Whatever he does with another adult is between his wife and him, not you. You are no one to tell others how to behave in bed. LIke I said before, you don' know whether his wife is involved or not (and since he's looking for a bi woman, she might be).
Acting self-righteously might put you in the position of embarrassing the entire family AND yourself.
2006-09-22 10:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kookoo Bananas 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats not a question. You asked what you should do, got different responses and now youre just pissed because some of of us dint tell you want you wanted to hear.
Why are YOU on the site? Right, none of my business...whether I go to your church or not.
2006-09-22 10:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sticky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabe his trying to find a play mate for him and his wife.Just give the info to his wife and watever happens next just leave it and don't tell anyone.
2006-09-22 10:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is your church, then YOU must deal with it.
2006-09-22 10:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋