I haven't told her yet, and we have had sexual relations for over a year now. I was thinking of just bailing on her, you know so I don't have to tell her. She's pregnant, and I'd have to get out soon. I don't feel bad about it, is that ok?
2006-09-22 02:53:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey if this is a true story you're the worst person in the world. Don't you know that HIV is transmitted during the sexual act. Why didn't you tell her. Now you want to blame it on her. More than that you are going to be a father and your child might have the virus, the child is going to be born to die. You should talk to her and pray God she doesn't sue you because what you're doing is called murder in third degree.
2006-09-22 02:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by princess22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all do you really have HIV, or are you just trying to get out of being a parent? Sounds like you have more than one issue here! Think about it this way..you got this from someone else, how does it feel to know that you have passed on a horrible thing to your own flesh and blood? You need to tell her, and tell her the truth. If I were her I would get you tested again, and then as the baby's parent she has rights to know your medical history!! Tell her now, or she'll find out later.
2006-09-22 09:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by skdelvalle2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's okay if you can leave her and your unborn child without telling her you may have given her a disease that can kill them both and still get a good night sleep. Just know that in the end, you will get what you deserve, and she's better off without you, jerkwad. I won't wish anything to happen to you because if you really do have HIV, you'll soon be sorry for every bad thing you've ever done and rightfully so.
2006-09-22 09:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes pregnant with your child? And you have HIV and did not tell her? You're a sick person to think of bailing on her, and in some states you can be charged with attempted murder for what you have done. Most people that have HIV I feel it's a tragedy and feel bad, but for you to be sick with this disease could not have happened to a more deserving person. I'll pray for your girlfriend and her baby.
2006-09-22 09:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're kidding right? she is going to find out when she has the blood tests from the doctor. and then what are you going to say? oh i didnt know? what about the baby? Oh my God! May the Lord have mercy on your soul. You have harmed two people in your life. Your girlfriend and the baby. My heart aches for them.. Of course with treatment they can both live a long life. But how callous are you? to have sex with her, possibly infect her and then leave? Infect the baby and then LEAVE? What kind of person are you? I will pray for you, your girlfriend and your baby..YOUR CHILD that you helped to bring into this world. One where it may not even have a chance because you were going to bail on them. In answer to your question? NO ITS NOT OK. you need to get some help.. serious help.
2006-09-22 09:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by Joyce K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not OK. you need to tell her. chances are the baby might be HIV positive too. you are such an*** ****. Why would you want to do that to her? You should have told her once you knew so she could get help. You've done too much damage. Running away from your mistakes is not the way to solve your problems. Gotta be a man and face them.
2006-09-22 12:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by stemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a joke right I mean noone is that f@#$@d up right?
If this isn't a joke you should be charged with attempted murder and I just think if this is a joke it is one of the most vile things I have ever heard On the flip side I made my man have and show me a test before we got rid of the trojan magnums and really enjoyed ourselves so it's too bad you weren't that smart and niether was she.
2006-09-22 09:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the biggest kind of loser on the earth....you could possible have given her a fatal disease and her baby inside of her too and you don't feel bad about it?? You knowingly infected her?? If she were to die I do believe you could be charged for that legally!! You are a waste of skin and air shouldn't be allowed to run free in the streets!
2006-09-22 09:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by Shae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COS NOT!
What the hell is wrong with you?
You should have told her even before engaging in a sexual relationship.
And You BETTER let her know because this concerns a baby,
not any thing else but a HUMAN LIFE.
You sick ****!
2006-09-22 10:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by nadia z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some states you can go to jail, you *** you should tell her because of the baby,you care only about you self and your pleasure and maby some day it will catch up to you,do you even know what they will go through now if she or the baby has it,but i am sure you don't have a heart nor soul,maby she will turn you in and you could be charged with murder if the baby dies
2006-09-22 10:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by mensert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋