I mean, they are generally players?
Do sincere guys say honeyed words as well?
2006-09-22 02:44:34 · 26 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well most sincere guys (myself being one) get mistaken for players because players pretend to be SINCERE just to get into girls' panties.
A rule of thumb indicates that a sincere guy will never try rush things... if you DONT have sex one the first date, and he still wants to see you afterwards again, then he more likely to be sincere, and not a player
2006-09-22 02:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jazz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on man to man. Some men have the urge while others don't. Men realize that it is difficult and complicated to have an affair with another woman. Just look at yourself. You are not happy but worried while you "know he hasn't cheated". Similarly what assurance is there that the next woman will be happy with a married man? If he means what he compliments you then you have a safe and secure marriage. EGO is one of the main problems in human relations. Female friends is no problem as long as he does not cheat. Many wives are insecure and worrying whether their men "really" love them. I don't know how to assure such insecurity. I think men should express their love much more than they do. Still are the women willing to trust and do they have emotional security? What is the reason that you don't trust your husband? Just because he craves for attention from other women it does not mean he will cheat or that he does not love you. I may be bored with my wife just as i realize she may also be bored at times. That is not enough incentive to step out of an emotionally secure marriage and invite stress and distress. You may allocate a weekend or some time every week to communicate with him as you used to do before the children arrived. Try to go on a vacation to some romantic place without the children. Your marriage needs some variety and nurturing. Romance may have taken the back seat.
2016-03-27 02:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we have a gift--some have been blessed with some looks, charm,charisma, and yes the knack of knowing what to say at the right time--we usually have the pick of the field--doesnt mean we r bad guys--just means if u want a steady long term relationship most r reluctant to do that! why go to a sumptious buffet and only est one thing! Time and age makes us settle down and im 34 and its feelin about time! Can also translate into a heck of a sales career meaning big nice houses and things! if i were a lady wanting to settle down i wood want a man who has gotten all that outa his system noy someone who wonders if the grass is greener!
2006-09-22 02:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by eddie a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some extent you are right. But sincere guys will use honeyed words only after confirming you as partner. May be after lay in bed
2006-09-22 02:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the most part, yes they are players
However, u can tell the difference when u look into their eyes; a player will keep total eye contact with you, knowing that he has u 'under his spell'
A sincere guy will sometimes look away as he is unsure of how u will react.
2006-09-22 02:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by koleebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say those types of guys are the ones who are the most insecure, they put on an act to cover up that they don't believe in themselves enough. I wouldn't give in to bullshit instead call them on thier crap-talk and tell them if they wanna get with you then they need to be more sincere and show you who they really are...tell them to grow up and let you know when they are ready to deal with a smart woman who knows the difference between the men and the boys!
2006-09-22 02:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by Shae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right. Be careful with those types.
Sincere guys on the other hand are generally the shy-type, because they are true to their feelings and so it's harder for them to admit to us. But sometimes I wish they could be bolder so that I wouldn't have to wait for a hundred years before they make a move.
2006-09-22 02:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smooth talkers are not good. I agree.
There are some good guys that are smooth talking... the key is to string them along for a while. No action. Then if they stick around, you know that they're in it for the right reasons.
2006-09-22 02:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by cruachanmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love the Smooth Talkers! I wish I could be as smooth as them!
2006-09-22 02:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by _chooly_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sincere guys does say honeyed words too. its how u judge each guy.. every guy is different. i cant say flirts are players, some may be really gd deep down inside them. its juz rare.
gd luck n take care!
2006-09-22 02:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋