Why is it that as soon as a guys gets off he stops. My ex hubby was like that and since I've dated about 6 guys and there all the same. I would like to talk anout this. Lori
2006-09-22 02:42:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because their out of the fuel that keeps them going?
2006-09-22 02:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by Tericka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most, but not all guys need recovery time before they can do anymore, once they get off they are literally exausted for real...they get a rush when they get off...its a release...when they let all those little swimmers lose, thier energy goes with it. They are not lying when they say that they are tired...this is also why they want to turn over and go to sleep after sex.
Also you need to make sure you get off first....he should be willing to do this for you if he cares about you, if he isn't willing to do it...ditch him!
2006-09-22 09:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by Shae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men do. Your satisfactions actually should be handled up front since guys do "run out of gas". The guys you have been with have all been selfish.
2006-09-22 09:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, I have had that trouble in the past, but I finally found someone that knows what it is all about. There are men out there that will pleasure you before they 'exhaust' themselves. That is their best satisifaction ... to satisfy their lady. ..... Good luck finding one.
2006-09-22 10:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Why do you ask? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Lori, you are evidently messing with the wrong fellas. Have you talked to any of them about this?
Remember, your mind IS the largest sex organ................
2006-09-22 09:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite possibly just the typoe of guy you date.
2006-09-22 09:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had that myself with 3 recent guys..after they come, its like nothing else matters..i have no idea why but i would like to know!
2006-09-22 09:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by babybitch69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 rule of mine is get her off first, #2 after play #3 repeat step 1
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2006-09-22 09:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by Frank R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with me i am like a microwave but you slow down it will last longer and if he comes tell him to stay and he will and when he comes around it will be on agian
2006-09-25 16:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by joedad20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have already satisfy there selves and dont realise we need more loving or cuddling.
2006-09-22 09:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋