Iam not or big am a lilttle shy butam outgoing when you get me started ,but i cant get a date
i have browneyes blackhair am i have brown skin
2006-09-22 02:29:36 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can see this right in the letter. Your shyness is stopping you. Identify your strengths and weaknesses, and focus on projecting your strengths, and developing your weaknesses. Know your strengths and be confident. Don't worry about the other stuff.
Practice, practice, practice. Expect to get turned down a lot. There is nothing wrong with that. It happens to everybody, but they don't worry about it, they just move on to the next opportunity. 1 yes for 9 nos is a very good average at this point. Just don't make it a big deal. 5 yesses for 100 nos is still a good average, especially at first.
Just try talking friendly to five different girls each day, without asking for a date. This will develop your communication skills. After six weeks, you will know which girls will be most receptive and how to approach them with confidence. Remember you are doing them a favor because otherwise they would be sitting around doing something not very interesting. Do simple things with girls while practicing, and don't spend much money on them. Learn to enjoy their company, and allow them to enjoy their company without spending much money and having them concentrate more on money or gifts than the gift of pleasant company.
And quit calling yourself lildavie. Call yourself Dave or David or Big Dave or something like that.
Good luck and get out there and start practicing.
2006-09-30 01:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
dont sit ther expectin' for dates, move on with your life. Come on that wont kill you. Things will organize themselves as time flys by. So be a man enough, relax and dates you will get several till you cough some.
2006-09-22 09:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Storm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do people ever read their question before they post it?
If your writing is any indication of how you are in the flesh, perhaps you should pay a little more attention to how you come across to others.
2006-09-22 09:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Annabelle418 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do in your situation is to just go up to someone you like and ask them out..im sure they will be flattered and might even say yes
good luck
2006-09-22 09:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by channingtatumissexy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be yourself; respect yourself; love yourself and someone will in return: love & respect you for who you are.
2006-09-22 09:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Daisie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is be yourself and someone will love you for that.
2006-09-22 09:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋