Absolutely no motivations and u only with them because of certain circumstances that is beyond your control.what's a girl to do.
2006-09-22 02:01:30 · 22 answers · asked by hope 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel someone is bringing you down the problem is they are.I understand that sometimes circumstances demand that you do what you might not want to do.but understand this you need to stand up and take control enough is enough that's what it may take to motivate that person. thus helping you and them to have a much better life
2006-09-22 05:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by slydogg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is beyond your control when you are talking about your feelings and yourself. You control you no one else! If he doesn't do it for you then you have to tell him that, and move on. Maybe you two can be really good friends. Sometimes that is the way it is meant to be anyway, you just have to figure that, and you already have! Time to tell and move on, no matter what! You can't make someone else happy if you are not happy! Take control, becareful, and respect yourself and him!
Best of Luck to you!
Always Amy
2006-09-22 09:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried motivating this person to feel better about them self? Everyone needs a pick-me -up every now and then. Give em a chance and if nothing seems to work, move on.
2006-09-22 09:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If the circumstances are to great face them. If not handle them and get out. You will not be happy in the situation u are in.
2006-09-22 09:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by cuttur2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do, when all my loved ones didn't believe in my dream and gradually i develop self doubt. but through the reading of autobiographies of successful men i reelise they face such problem too. the most important thing is to keep positive at all time as life is full of ups and downs. u either want to do it or not. nothing too difficult when u harness that self belief in u.
2006-09-22 09:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not been with like a boyfriend, but friends in the past. Same thing, I think..."Lie down with dogs, rise up with fleas". Cut your losses, and get a man who shares your ambition and passion in life.
2006-09-22 09:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have been with a lot of guys that feek like they are bringing me down but i just look the other way i know its hard to but u have to or step up to that person and tell him/her how u feel about what they are doing to u im telling something i am fine now that i steped up and said something just sit that person down and talk to him/her like adults and tell that person to listen to what u say and then tell them well holla back at me cya Renea
2006-09-22 09:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by lickmedry6917 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then RUN for dare dignity.life is already full of problems you dont need anyone bringing you down on top of it.there is no circumstance that is beyound your control exept death.once you are alive the rest is your choice.goodluck.
2006-09-22 09:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by julie_van15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im with a guy that is not as smart as me. He thinks he's smarter than me but nooo. He doesnt support me. So when he pisses me off i show him how smart i am and he usually ends up feelin dumb. Dont let any male bring you down! Let him kno whose boss.
2006-09-22 09:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by kristie69420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tried motivating him too, I bet. Hope you're not married. Just keep doing good stuff for yourself and your family, maybe something will change....
2006-09-22 09:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋