i have my bf for 4years now but there's this guy i like very much and im busy falling for him must i leave my bf to be with the one that makes my hart pound
2006-09-22 02:00:08 · 26 answers · asked by candy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get some psychological help first!! before it s too late and that's all you need to do
2006-09-22 02:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by ★HigHTƹcH★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously lost something for your boyfriend because all you have is lust for the other guy right now. You know the answer just drop your boyfriend and get with this other guy. Don't put him through this. Just remember if things don't work out with the new guy don't go running back to the old one even though he'll prolly take you back. Chances are he doesn't know that you don't love him anymore the way you used to. If a guy did this then all the girls would be on here hatin the guy this is a joke and everyone should see how twisted you girls really are.
2006-09-22 09:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by de4life34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is want having a boyfriend and dating is all about, finding out about each other. If you have a boyfriend even if it is for four years there maybe always a time you could be attracted to another male. If you are not completely committed to your relationship and if you feel you are falling for another then move on. If you have told you now boyfriend that you are committed to him then you need to analyze your relationship with your current boyfriend and see how you really feel. If you are just infatuated with this new guy and you still love your current boyfriend then maybe you should not have much contact with the new one. If you are tired of your current boyfriend, then move on. Go for your new guy and see how it works.
It is when you commit to someone that love is really put to the test. Good Luck
2006-09-22 09:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't give in to lust. The other guy is just a crush. Altough you love your b/f I think something still might be missing in the relationship. Otherwise, you wouldn't be lusting after another guy. Your crush makes your heart pound, but obviously your b/f doesn't. Maybe you should think about that. Either way if you love your b/f, I think you should stick with him or figure out what's missing in the relationship. Would if you get with the crush, and come to find out he's not what you really expected? Would it be worth losing your current b/f, the one you actually love?
2006-09-22 09:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough question but a good point to ask if your bf turn around on this scenario, what will u want him to do. it can take a lifetime to get to know someone and a crush will make us so engross with that someone that in the end we lost touch with reality. if u feel that u can afford to give up your bf go ahead. but never ever be a 2 timer my dear. i have your interest in heart. best wishes.
2006-09-22 09:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you imagine 4yrs?..thats a long time.your reLLy lucky to have a guy like that. try not to think about the guy you like.concentrate at 1 person.stick to one. if you break up w/ ur bf, thats so sad.imagine fr 4years of good relationship.dont let the guy you like interup your beautiful relationship with your bf.
2006-09-22 09:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by -BabyGhUrL- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had better make sure that the other guy cares as much for you, as you do for him. Before you leave a 4 year relationship. Are you sure it is not just a crush with this other guy?
2006-09-22 09:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If You've been with your boyfriend for 4 whole years...there's obviously something there that's more than just your everyday crush!...Stay with your boyfriend, do yourself a favor. And remember, "Never leave the one you love for the one you like, beacause the one you like will leave you for the one they love."
2006-09-22 09:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are two difference things, please make a difference between "like" and "love". Understand like and love then decide what to do. To like somebody, may be change with the time but to love someone can not be change with the passage of time. I think its now clear to understand.
2006-09-22 09:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by mrs509eb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be with someone because of a long relationship unless you cant live without them, but on the other hand dont leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love...
2006-09-22 09:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by lila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before being properly hired for another job,never quit the existing one.Got it?Take your pick and follow your heart.
2006-09-22 09:03:04 · answer #11 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋