i tried to solve my own problem by sleeping with a guy i liked but now i feel slightly guilty and wrong about it. I don't think i can really look him in the eye again now!
2006-09-22 01:51:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you made an error, it isn't a mistake unless you continue to make the same error.
Of course you can look him in the eye! And smile...
2006-09-22 01:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to add more details. Men are generally more forgiving then you think. You should fess up to him and see what he says. Ask him over the phone if you can't face him. I'm sure you'll find him to be more understanding then you hoped for. Tell him you need reassurance otherwise you don't think you can see him again because of the embarassment you feel. Tell him you do like him however and would like to build the relationship more slowly. Believe it or not alot of relationships are formed this way from wanting revenge on an ex, etc. Don't worry so much about it. You are a good person though. Don't sweat the small stuff.
2006-09-22 08:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your problem was or is, but you need to learn to solve problems on your own. You can look to friends for help but that means opening up to them and telling them what is wrong.
If you still like this guy you still have the option of going to him and telling him what's going on, etc. He may or may not accept it, and/or you, but at least you would be straight forward, honest and honorable.
Anyway look, we all make mistakes in life. The important thing is that we learn from them and don't do it again. Good luck.
2006-09-22 08:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can look him in the eye. It takes two to tango, hon - he was in on it too.
And besides, it's your body and you are the one who says yes or no. You have nothing to feel guilty or wrong about. If you're underage, you should perhaps re-examine your choices till you're older, but all the same, you don't need to punish yourself. Hold your head up and be proud to be a woman.
2006-09-22 08:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nightlight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is no way to solve anything, you were very wrong because if he likes you then you will have hurt him a lot,you need to learn to respect your self and other don't use sex at a drop of a pin,i hope you have learned from this,if not then you will end up hurting your self in the long run
2006-09-22 08:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by mensert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the problem with sleeping with a guy you are attracted to? Just be careful and use protection.
2006-09-22 08:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not wrong, but you obviosly did something you were not ready to do. Just don't be to hard on yourself and use what you have learned in thefuture not to do anything you are not comfortable with. If the guy gets mad about it, well, he is not worth it anyways.
2006-09-22 08:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing wrong here is that you feel guilty about it!
Don't feel guilty about getting your groove on.
2006-09-22 08:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you were wrong for what you did,...sometimes it's the ONLY way to find out!! We have to act upon it,....and that's just what you did. Ask yourself, was it really what I expected, then go on from there. I'm GOOD at advice, ask anytime....Sherry
2006-09-22 10:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by SherryB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey tats a wrong thing before marriage......u cant solve a problem by sleeping with him..........you are wrong.....but try to forget that u hav slept with him.... and be normal
2006-09-22 08:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by pres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋