My bf broke up w/ me 2 weeks ago. He broke up w/ me. I figured I'd given him some time so yesterday I walked over to his house and apologized and basically poured my heart out to him. When I left, I felt so much better. Not that I thought we'd get back together, but because I've always felt like there's nothing worse than words left unsaid. Last night I find out that he was telling all his friends that I came over and was asking why he won't talk to me anymore (in a real whiny voice) and asking for us to get back together. It was a real personal conversation and he made a joke out of it. Men suck sometimes.
2006-09-22 01:32:56 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1.) we were together a year
2.) we're both in our late 20's
2006-09-22 01:33:39 · update #1
What a juvenille little prick oh well you said your piece now move on the beauty of men like that is they talk a whole lot and in the end get nowhere obviously this boy hasn't grown up enough to recognize other peoples feelings yet in a few years he will look back on this and feel a small tinge of guilt not that that will help you get through this but someday when you look back you will wonder why you even cared.
2006-09-22 01:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not speaking of all men, but alot of men don't share their feelings and emotions the way a women does. A woman takes words to the heart and especially when she is sharing them with a man. The man however thinks its just "words". Some men are immature, and don't take things like that seriously. I wouldn't worry about it. I would just go on with my life and find someone a little more sensitive and mature. Good Luck!
2006-09-22 01:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i jus broke up with my boyfriend bout 1 month ago and i miss him like madness so i know what u going through. i think that he is being really immature about this situation, sometimes guys are like jerks. i think that u should let it go, don't call or make any contact with him and if he does happen to call or make contact with you as much as u want to talk to him try hard to avoid him if he calls pretend u get another call and say i'll call u back and don't call, it's have him wondering what made u change towards him and he'll start focusing more on u men like a chase and if he does happen to ask why the sudden change jus simply say u don't like to befriend small minded immature boys and tell him about it. i wish u all the best. jess
2006-09-22 02:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica Simpson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are cold, calculating and heartless... I've also met girls that way as well... next time find someone a bit more sensitive... more attentive to you and your emotional needs... at least if the relationship doesn't work, you won't be dealt with in a cruel heartless manner, as you just were... and if it does work out you'll have someone who truly cares from the heart about you...
2006-09-22 01:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this, but from the way he acted, I pictured him being a teenager. That's the maturity level I pictured. You tried to be mature and leave things on a good note and he had to be an *ss. You're actually very lucky to be without him. True men suck sometimes, but remember, they all don't. You'll find your mature guy soon enough. Just forget this one.
2006-09-22 01:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe it's a proven fact that men are more immature than girls, but he still had no right to treat you like that what a loser! Don't get mad get even and give him a taste of his own medicine, sounds like he needs to be brought down a peg or two. Keep your head held high and get back out there on the market girl xxxx
2006-09-22 01:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by crazychicklisieloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a good thing he broke up with you. You deserve better than that immatue jerk,,,who felt the need to impress his friends. That should make it easier to forget him now. Stay away from him and dont ever talk to him. Find someone who will respect you,,find a real man.
2006-09-22 01:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's beyond the pale. My guess is he's trying to prove how superior he is and being a turd about it. It's very nice that you learned that before a deeper commitment, isn't it? Elvis' plea comes to mind: "Don't be Cruel."
Yeah, men suck sometimes. People suck sometimes.
2006-09-22 01:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dare u go back to him and even chat with him
men r just a bunch of suckers they play with ur heart and li9fe and treats gals as a use n throw kinda thing well get out of that emotional mood CHEER! up gal thats life ! try making new frnds .
ok! take care
bye
2006-09-22 01:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by nivi rocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they do and hes not a real man anyway to tell his business to his friends.so what he want talk to you make that your gain and his lost you deserve better.you have try to show your love so move on some young man will be happy with you don't waste any more of your time on him.he broke up with you so allow yourself to see hes not worthy at least you know you tried
2006-09-22 01:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋