2006-09-22 01:24:18 · 37 answers · asked by trevorchipfat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First of all, whining is not the word you should be using for someone who you love and has given birth to and raising your children.
Maybe what you should do is be a good husband who thinks about what she is going through, get a babysitter and take her out for a wonderful evening. Then be a father and watch the kids for her so she can get out and do the things she enjoys.
I hate it when men think woman should be content staying at home raising the children. They just don't know what that feels like, you feel like your whole life is consumed with housework and the children and yes even the husband. /that is not enough for you, why should it be enough for her?
2006-09-22 02:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her get away and have some fun or socialize with other people. It is very hard to be at home all day with a baby that doesn't talk. For me I get depressed when I don't get out of the house once in a while. Maybe you could help and encourage her to go to and help her find a playgroup or another mom with a child the same age you have.
2006-09-22 01:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by tina*21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, She is right. Look, unless you want a crazy woman n your hands you need to offer to watch the baby a couple of hours a week so she can get out. If you cant do that then you are a major jerk. You helped make the baby now you need to help raise it. Babies are demanding. They require care 24/7. Moms get tired, especially new moms. If you are too manly to help that way then pay a sitter to watch the babie and let your wife go shopping or have a girls day at the spa. it will rejuvinate her spirit and help her feel better. it will also make you a hero in her eyes. He might want to make another one even.....
2006-09-22 01:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lynnette G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go out and enjoy herself you selfish whining pig of a husband what gives you the right not to allow her some enjoyment.
I bet you are one of these husband that wants wife to stay at home look after the kids and keep it nice for you, well tuff its the 22century pal wake up give her a life back
2006-09-25 19:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by willowthedog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arrange one day / evening every week off for her. You cannot imagine such a change in a life especially with the first one. Just not so long ago she was out and about but with a baby it's opposite. just a bit More support ( at least what i wished for and never got it. went nearly to the break down point.) Your Wife is a human being and needs your support now. Good Luck!
2006-09-22 01:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by Everona97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan a romantic night out with her. Get a babysitter, and you two go out to eat at a great restaurant, and then take her to a movie that she wants to go to. Have a rose for her in the car waiting for her, and tell her how much you love her and how beautiful she is.
On a weekend, you watch the baby and let her go shopping, and get pampered by getting her hair and nails done or whatever she wants to do.
Us wives and moms need a little TLC from time to time so that we can take care of the people we love!!
2006-09-22 02:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you can never stop a woman whining. Maybe a sock in her mouth?
Never the less, you could encourage her to join some sort of social function in which she is bound to make friends. Make sure there arent any men she is looking for company with though. Try nitting classes or ladies tea evenings.
2006-09-22 01:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by mick241602 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a baby sitter to help YOU care for the baby for a long weekend and send her off with two of her best girlfriends for a weekend away where she can begin to feel like a human being again instead of an exhausted, baby puke covered dishrag.
Oh, and stop using the word "whining". It mikes you sound like a jerk.
2006-09-22 02:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi Di 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My my , aren't you the sympathetic Husband! Have you ever thought about how she is feeling? She's forced to want to live a little, she isn't just a Mother you know! She needs a life outside the home too, try looking after the children so she can have a bit of well earned Me Time!
2006-09-22 01:40:34 · answer #9 · answered by Not called Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time off. Plan special dates and surprises for her. Arrange it all. Lunch out with her friends. Please don't call it whining, instead look at it as an opportunity to help make the woman that you love happy. She needs that right now.
2006-09-22 01:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋