I have had various girlfriends at college, though I always used condom.
I am now setted with one who I really love ( we had been using condoms since we started our relationship).
I now want to have a baby soon, but I will have to check my health first first
2006-09-22 00:09:37 · 14 answers · asked by imma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call your county health department and schedule an appointment. You can be tested there anonymously. It is a wise thing to get yourself tested.
2006-09-22 00:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are heterosexual and from USA (or another western country) and you have always used condoms, there is practically zero chance that you have HIV/AIDS. Don't be scared at all to have the test - and take your girlfriend with you!
If you are from a country in Africa on the other hand, there is a real chance that you could have HIV/AIDS, and it is very important to get tested.
2006-09-22 01:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by southernrightwhale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a family doctor that you could go to? Just ask to be tested for std's. And remember, it's not only HIV you need to worry about. There are MANY others that could affect not only your partner, but you future children, if not caught and treated. If you don't have a family doc, just go to a clinic and they will test you.
2006-09-22 00:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by bluez 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are place you can go to get tested and if all comes back negative no one will ever need to know... but I think that if you had so many girlfriends before meeting this young lady you may have caused her a disservice by not getting tested before having sex with her... what if the condom had broken? do it today and live your life..
2006-09-22 00:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you'd be doing the right thing by being tested. just look up your local health clinic if you're afraid to go to your family doctor and they'll tell you all you need to know. it sounds like you've been really careful, but why risk your girlfriends health and/or your babys'? you'd feel so much better knowing!
2006-09-22 00:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by sarah_lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your primary Doctor, only you will know about it, and the Doctor, I have worked in the AIDS unit for a few years, I know you are concerned, but don't panic. Good Luck with everything, you sound like a real sweetie.
2006-09-22 00:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any family planning center will help.The test is usually no or very low cost.It takes about 15 days to get the results..Good luck
2006-09-22 00:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by eva b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok, go to your Dr. and ask them to set you on the right path. It can be all cunfidnchal and you dont even have to give your real name when you take the test.
2006-09-22 00:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by Sekkennight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll be fine, just contact your doctor and they will do some tests, i wouldn't worry i am sure you will be fine.
good luck with that and good luck on trying to have a baby, they are the best! :)
2006-09-22 00:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by puppy love 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to your local health departmen and request a HIV/AIDS test. They usually do it for free. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-22 00:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by tonibananas72 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋