my boyrnd used to call me at work but these days he dosen't and l have never ask him why he dosen't call.as for now we stay together at his place.when l get home l cook wash the dishes . all he dose is to sit, eat and sleep .we don't talk like we used to. we avoid each other
2006-09-22 00:04:03 · 21 answers · asked by holy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
were he comes from woman are the ones who do everything.after my work l go to his shop so we close the shop together and we go home. if am late like l will be doing something at work he gets mad am working near his shop .if he is cheating l think he dose it during the day cause everyday we close the shop together.
2006-09-22 00:56:03 · update #1
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2006-09-22 00:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether he's cheating or not, this doesn't sound like a great relationship.
My relationship with my ex was like that... he wasn't cheating, we had both just got too comfortable and you end up taking the other person for granted. I broke up with him because I felt we'd gone past the fixing it stage.
But you could try adding some excitment to your relationship. So he see's you the way he did when you got together rather than just the dishwasher.
For a while me and my ex decided to have an adventure every month, go away for the weekend, fun fairs and stuff like that. Maybe it'd work for you.
Remember not to settle where your not happy though, its scary but in the end your happiness is always worth it.
Good Luck. xx
2006-09-22 07:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your married. That was my last marriage. sit him down and have a talk with him, tell him how you feel and how special he would make you feel when he called you in the middle of the day, and now that he doesn't do that anymore you are sad. Communicating with him is the best solution. good luck
2006-09-22 07:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by tonibananas72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he likes having the "little woman " around .. since your living together your getting a very good look at what being married means to a fella ...
It doesnt sound like he is cheating just sounds like he is hmmm
" MARRIED " and taking you for granted ...
2006-09-22 07:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear, let him know how u feel, in a gentle manner, it is easy to get frustrated with another as living together is not easy. but cohabiting is a no-no in the 1st place. don't let your suspicious ruin your relationship though as trust is very important and communication will to better understand another's need. best wishes.
2006-09-22 07:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is coming home on time most likely not ,the first signs are late coming home ,changing they way they dress ,new clothes ,new cologne .most of the time not being with you and coming home ,Just flat out ask him to be honest with you ,wish you luck
2006-09-22 07:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like there is something going on... He could be depressed you need to talk to him I am not sure if he is cheating but he definitely is going trough something..as a friend has his girlfriend you need to find out...
2006-09-22 07:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so...thats what some of us guys do when we get comfortable in a relationship...it looks as though your givin him too much...your cookin and cleaning ....heck....i didnt know they make women like that anymore...if i found a women like that ...i'd call her at work...and talk with her when she got home....
2006-09-22 07:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by geodesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're just the maid, call him on it.
2006-09-22 07:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and find out what is going on.
2006-09-22 07:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by eva b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋