I've recently met a wonderful woman and the relationship is developing nicely. However, one seemingly small issue has become a major obstacle. I LOVE being playful and tickling (especially on feet), but she has the most unbelievably ticklish feet and laughs hysterically when tickled there. She hates it while I love doing it. Of course this seems like a simple trade-off - her or the tickling. However, as silly as it sounds, not being able to tickle my g/f will leave a sizeable gap in the relationship for me.
Any wise suggestions? (including how to make her feet less ticklish lol)
2006-09-21 22:50:54 · 12 answers · asked by thegodfather 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what i cant understand is do you get turned on from this or what,coz i had a fella once who would look at tickling websites and to be honest i found it all a bit freaky.
2006-09-21 22:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could do what my b/f does with me, because I'm the same way as your lady. If someone tickles my bare feet for more than a couple minutes and I can't get away I either pee myself, throw up or pass out from laughing. My b/f loves tickling me so he lets me keep my no-show socks on after he takes off my sneakers. It still tickles a lot, but at least I can stand it without the drastic results. I still laugh a lot but the thick socks keep his nails off the bare soles, so it's a healthy compromise. Good luck. My b/f would be way brokenhearted if he couldn't tickle my feet. He's a foot tickle fiend like you seem to be!
2006-09-23 10:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. I'm not going to elaborate...
However, what you should do is allow her to tickle your feet as well. It can't be a one-sided thing. Give and take is what relationships are all about even S&M style realtionships. If necessary, she should tie you down and tickle you. It's only in this way that she will experience your fetish for herself and understand the appeal.
I hope you have happy times.
2006-09-21 23:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She hates it..those are your words...a simple trade-off...again those are your words.You answered your own question.Your the one with the foot fetish not her.So if you want to keep this wonderful woman think of something that both of you can enjoy and make her an offer she can't refuse.If you don't after a while your tickling is going to get old and you will lose her.
2006-09-21 23:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how some people have a sex buddy? Well what you need is a tickle buddy. Just someone you can meet once a week and get it all out our system.
2006-09-21 23:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by yeahbutnobut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignor the histerical laughing and get on with the tickling.
I used to laugh when my hubby used to kiss me - this was when we first started going out - I think I was just a bit nervous.
What would you prefer - laughing while being tickled or laughing while being kissed?
2006-09-21 22:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Supertwirly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, tickling her feet will soon become a major irritation to her and could cost you the relationship ... i would suggest a less sensitive area so that she is not overwhelmed and starts to view it as cruel annoyance
2006-09-21 22:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really wants you to stop she'll start kissing you..thats what i do you my bf when he tickles me because i just laugh until i cant breathe..so i have to start kissing him to make him stop.
2006-09-21 22:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tickle her fanny instead,,she would soon forget about her feet
2006-09-22 02:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
foot fetish by any chance.......its quite a strange thing, but wish u luck mate
2006-09-21 22:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by ho2asme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋