2006-09-21 22:47:37 · 20 answers · asked by lazydazy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give me details!!
2006-09-21 22:50:08 · update #1
yeah, only by my family's standard.
2006-09-21 22:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhh yes I have when I was 14 I met this guy at a apartment complex we hooked up and stayed together till I was almost 18 when I turned 17 I gave my virginity to him we were suppose to get married so I figured why not show him the love I feel for him well we got engaged and a few months later I got pregnant well the day I was suppose to had got married I ended up in the hospital almost miscarrying with our daughter he actually called me up on the phone and he broke everything off with me through the time I was with him I knew I didn't need to be with him due to his drugs,alcohol,partying and especially all the bad rumors I heard I shouldn't had been with him but I dismissed everything out of my head cause I just couldn't stop loving this guy he was like a drug I was addicted to him deep down in my heart I knew it wasn't right being with him because of his ways but I couldn't get over the love I had for him and all it caused was my daughter and I a heartache cause when she was born he never once did a thing for her and came around he still doesn't and he never was with me either when I had her my parents hated me being with him cause they knew how he was and they didn't want me to get hurt well I wish through my teen years I would had listened a little bit more cause all I did was end up in hurt for me and my child and it just wasn't worth it now im 22 and he's 26 he still hasn't done a damn thing
2006-09-22 06:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. well yeah heaps of times. my parents always say wait til ur 26 or something than have a gf and think about marriage . til then focus on studiees. man i had 6 long relationships with girls and trust me we got hot and heavy! after a while i felt guilty about what i did so i talked to my parents about it. They were infuriated, they nearly killed me (not literally)! but we talked after that and they said (and o'm giving you the same advice as my parents and friends gave me) go with ur gut feeling, if u think ur doing something wrong, don't do it. ok so maybe u want a gf or bf, wateva, u musn't go too far with wat u do. and trust me from previous experiences i know.
P.S. i'm not one of those naughty boys u think i might be, all i did was kiss those girls for a long time not all at once of course but yeah.
There is a reason you are not together. Let this person go. I know it is hard, but for your good and for your life do not get involved. Life will be so much easier. Trust me.
Good Luck!( you'lll need it)
2006-09-22 05:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by Nilo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea and it is hard, but the best thing to do is not even get involved at all. These type of drama type relationships are not but drama filled heartaches. Really there is a reason you are not together. Let this person go. I know it is hard, but for your sanity and for your life do not even get involved. Life will be so much easier.
2006-09-22 05:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the western world, (ie, europe, north america, etc) people are mostly "forbidden" to be in love with their relatives. this is called incest and is illegal in most places. this is mostly so because it is believed that having sexual relationship with people you are related to will cause children with genetic defects and mutations. this has been proven not true in an occasional mingling of family tree limbs.. however if a family continually makes a practice of marrying their brothers and sisters for a period of generations, mutations with occur.
in the eastern world, arranged marriages have been more common, is sometimes still practed, and forbidden love is love between two people who are not allowed to marry. this happens quite frequently. you can either stand up to your parents and run away with your love (if you are old enough to support yourself and through school already) or you can obey your parents and marry the person they think is best for you.
2006-09-22 05:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by .jess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I went out with my best friend & his new girlfriend once to a nightclub & I ended up having sex with her in my car in the parking lot at like 3 in the morning. It must have been the best sex I ever experienced since it was illegal. I reckon she felt the same since she begged me for more later that night. We never actually did have another go at it but after about 3 days, my friend asked me to go to her house to collect a few dvd's for him. When I got there she took me to her room & gave me a *blow*job. After that I told her that we needed to end it & she agreed. She ended up breaking up with him in that same week & I am sure that it had something to do with me. Lucky I never got caught by my friend but I do feel guilty till today.
2006-09-22 06:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in high school, an older woman who was an assistant teacher. We saw each other a few times, I wanted her to quit and be with me but it ended when she moved.
2006-09-22 05:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by Angelo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this girl i was crazy about was desperatly in love with somebody else and she would tell me all about him and my heart would rip in 2 ,but in the end i listened because i wanted her to be happy and she was with him so i suffered in silence it was 1 of the hardest things i ever did but i think it was the right thing to do
2006-09-22 05:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by bob s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. We're not together anymore and it kills me... I hope you are not in the same boat. Otherwise, I'm on your side ok
2006-09-22 05:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep a guy thats 14 yrs older than me.
2006-09-22 05:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by Hailey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my best friend. We have kissed and play with each other. While our boyfriends go fishing.
2006-09-22 05:56:33 · answer #11 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋