This guy I've been seeing for a couple weeks said that he never had a girlfriend before. But his friend told me that he said that he had two girlfriends. Who should I believe and why would the guy I'm seeing lie to me about this?
2006-09-21 22:36:00 · 12 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I ask him about the "two girlfriends"? If so, how and when?
2006-09-21 22:36:26 · update #1
You should ask him in a nice way to not put him off. He might be scared how you would react to him having previous girlfirends. If youre together now it doesnt matter about the past. But he should be honest with you.
2006-09-21 22:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by Angelo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be cautious and take the time to see if there are other discrepancies in his life. He may be a "liar" and say whatever will suit the occasion. This kind of person is untrustworthy, has poor character and is a disaster waiting to happen. If you learn from other sources that he did indeed have another girlfriend/girlfriends, I'd get as far away as possible no matter the wonderful explanation he may give as to the "why" he lied to you.
2006-09-21 22:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on what the lie is like if I ask: Q: have you ever completed something with yet another female on an identical time as we've been relationship? A(lie): uh... no Than on no account would forgive him. If it grew to become into: Q: What grade did you get in ELA? A(lie): ninety 8 that could slide
2016-10-01 05:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by laseter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u automatically believe the friend over the boyfriend?
Maybe the friend has his own reasons for splitting u up!!
Just tell him what his friend said, dont make a big deal of it, just mention it.
2006-09-21 22:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...to be honest..i knew this guy who went out with chicks...even for a while...but he never called them his girlfriend...maybe you are his first real girlfriend. If it dosen't get in the way of your relationship....don't let it bother you...you may have been telling you ...like he sees it...he never had a girlfriend...
2006-09-21 22:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him chase u not u chase him...men love that when u chase them....yes ask him straight out....and if he hums and Haaa's...then...u know that he is lying...but u need to think 2..that if u have been going out 4 only 2 weeks...well things cant b that serious now can they?
2006-09-21 22:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's in his past is his business, not yours.
However, he should be honest with you, I mean, he doesn't have to go into complete detail of everything he ever did before he met you, but he should be open about the fact that you're not his first.
2006-09-21 23:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wondering, why does it matter.. why are u interested in past. What you should be more concerned about is " if this is telling people that he's seein you".
and if u still think he's done somethin really bad.. ask him..
2006-09-22 01:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by the_hauntid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might worry about what you think, mention it to him, but dont be stroppy just say you want to understand and its no big deal but not to lie about anything in the future.
2006-09-21 22:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him and talk to him, when? anytime but as soon as possible before the situation got worse.....
2006-09-21 22:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋