I am a post graduate student and I loved a girl one-sided who was my best friend.She brokeup once she knew it. It's been six rotten hell months and I have been smoking much,drinking much and I have lost my physical health,lost my concentration because I couldn't face her daily in the college.I madeup my mind to get out of this place and I got a break in form of academic project for the rest of 6 months in my course. I was getting normal because I had to be there for just 1 more month.Now she is also coming to the same company I has decided to do project in same consultancy I have choosen.Iam highly depressed.But I dont know I should meet a psychiatrist for some medications to get out of this emotional depression.
2006-09-21 21:57:13 · 8 answers · asked by shiva 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
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2006-09-21 23:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
You are a post graduate student and you should be matured enough to know that you cannot throw away your life for the sake a girl who spurned your feelings for her. It's not worth it. Be strong to face the reality and begin to use the education and knowledge you have gained towards contributing meaningfully to the society. Stop thinking about the past, keep the present in your control and be a man to face the future with guts.
2006-09-21 22:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her know that her being there is bothering you. When she is around try to act like it doesn't matter. If you feel that yo cannot do this without talking to someone the by all means, see a councilor. As for ruining your health, no-one is worth making yourself sick over. You are the one who has to live in the body you are wrecking, not her. Life is to short to pine away for someone who doesn't share your feelings. Make a decision that you are going to start your life over and put YOURSELF first. Put a smile on your face even when you don't feel like it and face her with the attitude that you are not going to stop me from being the best person I can be. Eventually, you will start to feel better about yourself when you decide you are worth it. Get over her and get on with your life, there are plenty of women out there. You could be mising the one you are meant to be with while you are worrying about her, don't let that happen. Good Luck and God blesss.
2006-09-21 22:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if medication in necessary - but definetly some help should be sought. Perhaps talking to a counselor - not a school counselor, but a mental health counselor. Perhaps a therapist. And while talking to them, perhaps together you can decide if medication is needed. I also have to say that I find it odd that she broke up with you and then decided to go to the same company. Perhaps you should try talking to her and see why she would do something like that, also.
2006-09-21 22:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by Shadowtwinchaos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never cry after 3 things; A Bus, A Train, A Girl. One leaves, another comes. Just sit in the waiting room and chill, dude. You have to care for your future and immediate family members than that girl. You can tell she doesn't even respect your feelings for her. If she did, she would have talked to you about it herself than just breaking with you.
2006-09-21 22:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by Harry thePotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn that's lame. is there anyways you can transfer ? you should talk to you current employer. that sucks. WEll there is a solution to every problem out there...just talk to your employer they'll understand.. plus you were the 1st one that was there.... stop trying to find an excuse to smoke and drink that's lame... i think you should try to exercise or join a gym to try to "forget things"... plus you might meet somebody new... goodluck.. don't stay in the house if you're depressed try to get out of the house and enjoy life... remember she doesn't have that power over you c'mon :)
2006-09-21 22:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ginger B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some counseling. Move on from this and find someone who wants to give as much as you can give back, you had a crush on this girl and she saw you as a friend and no more.
You must get over it and stay healthy.
2006-09-21 22:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by john g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
where you from?dn't you have any close friend to accompany you to see a doctor?then,just do the right thing,the only person who can help you is yourself.don't rely on anybody else,just go and see a psychiatrist,ok.you'll feel better...good luck!
2006-09-21 22:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by Luisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋