y is it my partner wen we go to bed get me really horny then goes to sleep with out doin ne thing ?? yes he works long hours sumtimes but it happens wen he's on his days off to !!!! an its happens quiet regular... this makes me feel inadiquate an rejected!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-21 21:54:50 · 10 answers · asked by pollypocket150 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
iv tried goin cold an all other things
2006-09-21 22:03:22 · update #1
seems your bf lacks affection, get a rampant rabbit, be sure not to let you down. Not talking from experience AT ALL! lol
2006-09-22 02:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by ball_cathie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling Partner.
I do love you. I
am permanently tired from working so hard for us.
I also think there is something a doctor should see
But I don't like doctors.
Try turning me on BEFORE we get to bed.
Try screwing anywhere except in bed.
Why don't we do it on the litchen top and/or in the shower.
Or under the stairs? Or out on trhe patio?
Use the bed for Cuddling after love and for SLEEPING.
I'm so knackered working for us
that there is nothing left
when I hit the hay.
2006-09-21 22:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by SouthOckendon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look at going to bed earlier or making more time in the mornings.
He's working hard probably to benefit the two of you (at least in in his world).
He probably feels frustrated about it too. He probably wants to be with you not only for the activity itself but as an expression of love for you.
Two frustrated people doing their best does not always help a relationship.
Try not to be annoyed but understanding and solution orientated to get what you want out of the relationship so that it works for the both of you.
Good luck.
2006-09-21 22:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you try responding a little quicker and vary your approach if he is really tired he will be fighting to stay awake whatever he is doing. If you are stimulating his desires he will overcome the fight, if it is one way traffic it will be very natural for his tiredness to win.
Just a suggestion I don't know the full circumstances (or want to)
2006-09-21 22:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by philipscottbrooks 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing with my partner. I know its deep but when your tired you are still horny but your tired. i always wake my man up in the morning, play with him then he wakes up then i get in the bath. i dunno why i do it. he gets real annoyed too, just let him know how you feel and i am POSITIVE he wont do it again or atleast give it to you when he teases you!!**) gudluck x
2006-09-21 22:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lack of interests is usually due to 2 reasons....one is impotence and the second is lack of enticement from your spouse....figure out where is the problem.
2006-09-21 21:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by uknownotlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the same with him in the morning time and than when you see he is annoyed than say that you feel the same when he do that with you.
(you can not do that with everything)
2006-09-21 22:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by kelleke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need a resevre if he not up to the job get a replacement
2006-09-21 23:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you go cold on him, he'll feel that way and then show you more attention?
2006-09-21 21:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's time for you to take over
2006-09-21 22:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋