My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. I am 15 and he is 16. I have consistantly loved and cared for him with all my heart but I think he has gradually fallen out of love with me. He is honest and says that somedays he loves me more than others. Somedays he's very sweet and happy and can't wait to see me and then others quiet and distant. Every day I get a different message from him which keeps me hanging on. I can't stop crying. I so miss the dear sweet boy I fell in love with. Even our parents thought our love was true love and that we could maybe be the small percent that start off as High School sweethearts and then get married. Last night we broke up. I feel sick inside. Will he miss me?
2006-09-21 21:48:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry nope...
2006-09-21 22:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex and I got together when we were sophmores in high school. We have since graduated high school and have moved on to college. If you were to ask anyone in our town about one of us the other was always brought up. We had been to hell and back millions of times. everyone knew about us and how much we loved each other. We were so sure that we would get married and then be able to say to our kids that we were high school sweethearts but alas our plans changed. We were no longer working out like we used to so after much thought we broke up. We both missed each other so much tha we got together again for a little while but then broke up again. Today we still miss each other but are trying hard to just get used to being friends. I couldn't forget her if I tried. That's how strong our love was. And if your love was strong also no matter what he will never forget you either
2006-09-21 22:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both so young and its a time of many changes in your lives, he probably hasnt totally fallen out of love with you but needs to be a normal 16 year old as well who hangs out with his friends instead of the responsibility of a relationship - these things are making you drift apart, accept and go with this for now and get on with your own life and wherever it will take you and smile at what you both had - maybe when your a few years older things may be different. Your 15 and need to go hang out with your friends and experience being a teenager and having fun.
2006-09-21 21:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by kinnoishere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will both miss eachother some days more than others, and it will take a long time to get over this. Its not as bad as it seems.
It will take time and u will feel better eventually. U will probably be sick for a week or 3 and then be alright and then be good and eventually u will be yourself again.
Try not to make contact with eachother unless u absolutely have to. Just stay away. Sick feeling and emptyness will go away.
2006-09-21 21:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by chanD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Keep yourself together girl. You've both had some really sweet times, but never say no....
No he won't come back to you,
No, he will come back to you
No, I will never meet another guy I love as much
Just give yourself hope. Grieving is a natural part of respecting the love you shared so much.
2006-09-21 22:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He missed you the minute the breakup was spoken in words. Write him a letter that focuses on the positive or better yet send him a link to this forum. I know a week seems like an eternity when one is young, but just be kind to each other and the rest will work itself out, but for heavens sake please don't force it. Focus on school first and foremost
2006-09-21 22:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by Michael P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he will miss you, but you have to remember that you are so young. There will definitely be more love and broken hearts in the future, but that first one will always hurt and be remembered. All you can do is learn from this relationship to help you find your true love in the future.
2006-09-21 21:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by s_shafer7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so sad. This is just part of your life. You will meet other true love in the future. Trust me. When I was in high school, I was crazy about one boy and really sure that he was my Mr. Right. However, I was wrong and felt rediculous now. But, this is just life, isn't it!
2006-09-21 22:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by IDO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he will miss you....and if he cares like you do it will be hard for him to forget you....he may even decide to come back...i know this hurts...and i am so sorry....but you both are so young and maybe he wants to date others now for awhile...take one day at a time and try to stay busy...if he does not call you in one week i would not sit around crying ...make yourself get up and get involved with...try your best not to think about this ...but this to shall pass...he sounded like he was getting moody...like he did not know if he was still happy with you or not..be comforted that you loved and cared for him and that you tried to make it work....
2006-09-21 22:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAKE UP AND SMELL THE ROSES, YOU ARE ONLY 15 U THINK THIS IS THE GUY U WILL GROW OLD WITH GET REAL
2006-09-21 21:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by nothere 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋