o/k! my exboyfriend and i made a stupid video like pamela and tommy lee a long time ago, well he called tonight and told me that if i don't come over and put on some kind of stripper show for him and a few of his buddys he will make copys of the video and give them to everyone i know but if i get dressed up and go perform some sex show he will destroy the tape!
2006-09-21 21:38:17 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to go ahead and make copies and pass them out.
Part of what he is doing is getting your reaction and he likes the power of telling you what to do.
Think about it....doing a show for him and his friends........is actually worse than the video. It can only go downhill. He will most likely tape this strip that he wants you to do. You will just never hear the end from this guy.
Don't give your X bf such power over you.
2006-09-21 21:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah it was stupid!! Question now is do you want two videos out there or maybe if you go do the show then next time it will be go have sex with some guy for money. take the video hes got now and just be embarrassed and don't do it again.
2006-09-22 04:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's only up to you. I would say if it turns you on then go give them a show either way his buddies see you nake but do you want it to be on tape or in person. If you go in person be prepared to give everyone some action!!!
2006-09-22 04:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by eric v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Buffy... it's a no win situation. The guy's an *** to even propose this, so there's your reference to the gaurantee he's giving.
I suggest you get him on record (discreetly) saying that clearly.
Then refuse to do it (strip) and threaten him clearly with legal action.
Like I said, you're in a no win situation, no sense putting more money in the fire.
2006-09-22 04:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him manipulate you like that. He is trying to use you and set you up. You might get raped and you will be hurt mentally as well as physically. If he even exploits that out on you he is also exploiting himself. Don't let him bully you and you stand your ground for your rights. He may slander your name ans ruin your reputation but it is he that would look to be a fool because of his perversions of sexual acts. Don't feel guilty or give in to his domination over you. Your relationship is over and he has no power over you. Stand your ground and be assertive. I wish you well and take care.
2006-09-22 04:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go ahead and make copies, why should you be ashamed of it. So you slept with someone you cared about who cares..if he is that much of a biotch then he is lying about destroying it anyway. He may destroy one but you can bet he has copies
2006-09-22 04:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Purpslinger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guy sounds like an as s but don't be ashamed of it look how much money Pam and Tommy got:)
2006-09-22 04:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Smokey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After looking at your 360 page it appears that either option would be fine with you to be honest. Do which ever you would prefer. Or you could tell him that your calling the cops.
2006-09-22 04:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by mark g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id go over there
wearing a trench coat and high heels, but bring your dad and brothers/uncles..male friends.
and then get the tape back, while slapping him in front of his boys.
2006-09-22 04:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have a problem stripping infront of his buddies if you have no problem in putting pictures of your breast on you 360!!!!!!!
2006-09-22 04:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋