but his step mother always seems to be a problem. Whenever she is around it like im not even there, they talk to one another and it feels likes im not even there. He was in the hosp recently and she came to see him, which he has been 2 other times and he said she never came then, so why now, but she came in his room and he was in the bathrm, i told him she was there and she saying dont come out naked. WHY? He says i cant take a joke. I just want answers to my ?'s he says there is nothing going on but he gets defensive everytime i complain about her. So i called his sister and now he's really p'od at me. This woman is only 12 yrs older them him and his father is dead, so why wouldnt she be attracted to him and why cant he see that she is plan rude to me and why should i have to put up with it. If he would of done something about this behavior when we first started out, i dont think it would of come down to me calling his sister.
2006-09-21 21:23:35 · 5 answers · asked by L M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was on and off with a guy for two years, it didn't do me any good. If you gave it an honest go the first time, or even the second time, that you two were together, than something is obviously wrong in this situation, don't put yourself there to go running back to him when ever he wants you to. You need to put yourself first and find someone new and be in a relationship that isn't going to be on and off all the time. Same advice I give to my friends, 'If you're not happy with yourself, you're never going to be happy with anyone else'
2006-09-21 21:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by kittycat_cc14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is this bad now and you are only dating, and he does not seem to take your side, as he should, you should cut your losses now and move on as it will only get worse. If your BF can't respect you enough to consider your feelings, he is not someone you want to get serious with. I went through this and it is the only thing I regret from life, that I stayed as long as I did when I could have been happier a lot sooner. The ball is in your court.
2006-09-21 21:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Marmig Marky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest question i would have is why did he get so mad for you calling his sister if there is nothing going on. it would also depend on what his sister had to say too. but if he keeps acting like a jerk towards you when you're trying to make things work then i would tell him that we need to work this out or start seeing other people. hope it helps
2006-09-21 21:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by monkeyloverules 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and get a new person! It already look like it's not going to work out!
2006-09-21 21:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find this relationship so difficult..and it sounds like you do..end it...there are plenty more fish in the sea.
2006-09-21 21:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by geordie.lady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋