and find a girlfriend so I can start "getting some" on a regular basis?
2006-09-21 21:21:59 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, if you don't want to get back with her
2006-09-22 06:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by yvonne c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right time, it's just when you are ready.
Guys (like girls) can be vulnerable after a long term relationship and end up having sex with someone and then falling in love with them only to get married and divorced 2 years down the line.
Sex and having a relationships are of course two different things. If you can seperate the sex from love then any time after a relationship is ok.
Relationships might depend on you revisiting why and what you want from a relationship before looking if someone is compatible. Also you want to work out what you don't want, your ex wife is afterall your ex wife for a reason. You probably don't want the same type of woman. Of course it goes withiout saying that its best to find someone you find sexy.
2006-09-21 22:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Regardless of whether your seperated or divorced, Yes I think that it's ok for you to get out and about and find more people so you can as you said, "get some" on a regular basis, I honestly think that a year is more than you needed to wait, but I also think it was decent on your behalf to wait that long. Good Luck
2006-09-21 21:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by kittycat_cc14 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
By all means go outside. I'm betting she's not out there waiting to snipe you any more. And yes you should "get something" to eat and drink, maybe a new deodorant stick (mine don't usually last that long). LMAO. but really, if she isn't over it by now then it's her problem, not yours.
2006-09-21 21:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by eric J 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It was okay to date the minute you became legally divorced.
You put ex in quotations so I will assume that she is not technically your ex wife. I suggest that you take care of that and get divorced, if your not already because as a single woman.. we don't like dating married men, even if it is only by technicality.
2006-09-21 21:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by sassysharli 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yea man! Big time! Regular basis and lunch breaks lol.
2006-09-21 21:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Course it is - Im actually surprised you've waited this long!
Get a move on with your life and start enjoying yourself again!
2006-09-21 22:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be Afraid Barry
Be Very Afraid,
you might just pop your head out and your ex could be there
waiting for you.
2006-09-22 02:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by magnoliamillie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wll that depends...sure its ok for you to go out and look around, but if you just want to f*ck then you dont need a gf you need a no strings attached F buddy....if you want that plus someone to love then yea its all good for you to go out and find a gf
2006-09-21 21:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by lildevilchild_87 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, let me ask you this; Take a wild guess what SHE has been doing for a year!!! (maybe more). Yes, you've got our blessing. Don't wear yourself out, son. Jeeeeze! --Rat
2006-09-21 21:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that it is perfectly fine for you to go out and find a girlfriend. It is a healthy was to get on with your life.
2006-09-21 21:24:45 · answer #11 · answered by monkeyloverules 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋