My girl and I will make plans for the evening and she regularly cancels without so much as a call or email. When I call her, she doesn't answer and hours or days later has an excuse like she fell to sleep. I have asked her time and time again to smiply call or text me that something came up so I won't worry. When I am late calling her though or heaven forbid forget to call all together she accusses me of cheating on her. I have old her we should start at the dating level again to rebuild the foundation. Any suggestions?
2006-09-21 21:20:01 · 9 answers · asked by Michael P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why have you put up with THAT for so long! It must be real love, can't imagine why else you would have put up with it.
Instead of rebuilding I think you should talk about a separation for a while and explain to her what you have written here. If you don't love her, please walk away
2006-09-21 21:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experience that people treat us the way we teach them to. If this is not the way you wish to be treated then you need to let her know. Sit her down and tell her that it is time to take a big step back and get to know each other again. Make sure you let her know exactly why you feel the way you do be very clear and if she thinks there is no problem them it is time to let her go and move on in your live to find someone who will respect you more.
2006-09-22 07:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by RITA R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to break up because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings-but honestly you need to give the girl a break.
You're extremely too nice-and they say all the good men are taken. If you're a cheater b/c you don't call her-just imagine what she's up to. In anyhow wishing you all the best.
2006-09-22 04:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by SJama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea Dude...dump her she's playing you, I bet you pay her bills too don't ya? And I bet you dump whatever your doing in a second to be at her beck and call. If you don't dump her, do her like she does you. Make a date, don't call and cancel, then go treat yourself out to a night with the guys!
2006-09-22 07:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by GrannyTazzyManic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should take a step back to the friends level obviously she doesnt care to inform you of changes. and accuses you if you dont call her. i think she has her mind set and is already surfing the market for another person.
2006-09-22 04:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by Don L. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you yes you 2 may need time apart not to much time just a little good luck to the both of you
2006-09-22 04:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to flip the page....start a new chapter in your book of life.............Life is to short to waste it....: )
2006-09-22 06:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by kinkibbw_2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah move on.
2006-09-22 04:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chuck her
2006-09-22 04:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋