I have been talking to this girl online for montsh maybe years and she is always crying for me to leave my girlfriend. She even asked if she could be the other woman. I told her how I feel and she insists on trying to get me to come meet her and do the dirty. There is no way I could cheat on my girl. How could this girl be in love with me that much when we never met. (Only pictures online so far)
2006-09-21 21:11:37 · 22 answers · asked by ePCdoctor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes but highly unlikely.
Maybe you should just stop talking to her. It sounds like you are leading her on a bit.
2006-09-21 21:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's possible for someone who is inexperienced in making new friends. Without spending time with this guy, you don't know him well. A lot of what you think of him comes from your own imagination and not from real experience. And this means that you probably will be surprised at how different he is from the way you've imagined him, when you meet him in person. But if the two of you can overcome the crisis of meeting each other for the first time and getting to know each other from real experiences. Then your mutual love may survive and prosper. It's not whether your love is possible or impossible that is at issue here. Your feelings of love really do exist and so does your relationship with this guy. And if something exists, then it doesn't make sense to say that it cannot exist. This kind of statement is clearly false because it denies reality. But there is a problem in your relationship that you will have to overcome. And perhaps many people around you doubt that you will be able to overcome this problem.
2016-03-27 01:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by Debra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible to love someone u`ve never met in person. If the chemistry is there, and u r open and honest with one another, love can happen. In ur case, u r already cheating on ur girlfriend, not in reality, but in ur mind or u would not have allowed this situation to continue. Kinda like having ur cake and eating it too. I don`t quite understand why u have been talking with this girl for "years" if ur so fond of ur girlfriend, is something missing in ur relationship ?
2006-09-21 21:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by flamingo 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
it is possible i guess.
i met my first boyfren online. we chatted online for months before he dared to ask me out. it worked out great in the end. we had a meaningful one year relationship with each other.
i guess it is possible to fall in love with someone online cause when u chat online u actually got to know a person more personally then when u meet face to face.
but since u already got a girlfren, i suggest u just leave it at that. just an online pal. dun make her complicate ur life further. the one suffering in the end will be u. cause u are the one who will have to hurt ur current girlfren.
tink if it's worth it all to leave ur current girlfren for that other girl ok. good luck.
2006-09-21 21:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by keira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man no way! If you rich some girls just want your money! Look at the picture man! It's only online and think to yourself why she feel that way. Maybe she just want to use you.
2006-09-21 21:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet her on nuetral territory and tell her how you feel about your girl and tell her that u would like to be friends if you think that there is a chance then take it but do it slowly. i found my fiance online and we talked for three years before we hooked up we have now been together for six years.
2006-09-21 21:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by Don L. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well women go for whats on the inside and this is how she got to know you, she's felt something there and you may have led her on a bit. For respect out of your partner maybe you should cut all ties with this lady?
2006-09-21 21:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yeah she could be in love with you, but you don't ask people you love to do what she asks you. If you love someone your highest priority should be to make them happy. And if you are happy with your girl she should leave you alone. I would break off contact if you are not interested in her that way.
2006-09-21 21:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by km 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have an email buddy for some time now and im no where near in love w. him, i care for him but not in that way...i find it kinda hard to get close to someone over the computer, no offense but don't pursue anything w. her, she sounds a little desperate.
2006-09-21 21:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds way despret to me and I promise you aren't the only one so stay far away! Thats just scary!
2006-09-21 21:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋