Im 19 and for the past 2 yrs the best thing goin 4 me has been my looks, i use them all the time 2 get stuff from men, like money and gifts, but I keep worrying 24/7 that something is going to happen to me and im going to lose my looks before my time, like i'll get cancer and lose my awesome rack, or get in a fire and have it ruin my pretty face and skin, it drives me crazy!, how can I stop this thinking?
2006-09-21 21:04:17 · 14 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
rely more on your charm and personality more than your looks.
2006-09-21 21:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by WIZZARD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur biggest problem is thinking that ur looks are ur biggest asset im sure they are an amazing asset and i dont mean to boast but yes i too have been told i am very pretty. The thing is i know there is much more to me than that, although i sometimes feel if it wasnt for my looks id be treated differentely and my looks gives me confidence and give me opportunity to put on a "mask". Since people dont think bad things can happen to pretty people who seeem to be exuding confidence etc. However if u focus and think they are the best thing going for you of course ur going to be neurotic about them. People think pretty people have so much going for them but its so hard to find someone who genuinely likes u for you and isnt trying to just get u into bed or look at u as just an object. So just try to focus on u try to find out what other great assets you got and yeah remember looks DO fade whether we like it or not. Enjoy them while u got them and stop thinking about 2mrw and try to not use men no offence but u wouldnt likei ti if it was the other way round. Find inner balance gal and ull be fine, i know its easier said than done. I have friends who love me for me for my sense of humour, for my intelligence, compassion etc and now a boyfriend who I KNOW loves for my WHOLE self even my crappy flawed human nature type. He called me the whole package and trust me girlie once u found that no man, no money will ever even come close and being neurotic about ur looks will lessen. I am currently going thru a very stressful situation and have lost weight and generally look like complete crap but does he care??? nooo bcz he loves me that much he said even if i was a skeleton right now hed still wana be with me hold me and make me better... find ur inner peace and cheerish ur looks since we are lucky enough to have them...
2016-03-27 01:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by Debra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by not using men for one and for two find something else your good at go to college take some courses become someone who can run her own life if need be. and find a guy who you care about for more then just gifts or money. find one that u can love and who loves you . its hard but it can be done
2006-09-21 21:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by Don L. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting a career or start studying for one. Turn your focus to the inside instead of the superficial outside.
2006-09-21 21:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really...you need to build some character so your looks AREN'T the only thing going for you.
2006-09-21 21:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step away from the mirror and get a life.
2006-09-21 21:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by sueflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry about it. If you ever do not have someone to love you I am sure you will still be in love with yourself.
2006-09-21 21:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look on another people who don't even half what you have .
2006-09-21 21:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your looks can't be everything that makes you attractive.
2006-09-21 21:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by minoru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks dont last..remember that.. what is important is the real you.. your character toward other people..
2006-09-21 21:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋